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A LETTER FROM THE PUBLISHER Dear Readers, I welcome you to The Sober World magazine. This magazine is being directly mailed each month to anyone that has been arrested due to drugs and alcohol in Palm Beach County. It is also distributed locally to all Palm Beach County High School Guidance Counselors, Middle School Coordinators, Palm Beach County Drug Court, Broward County School Substance Abuse Expulsion Program, Broward County Court Unified Family Division, Local Colleges and other various locations. We also directly mail to many rehabs throughout the state and country. We are expanding our mission to assist families worldwide in their search for information about Drug and Alcohol Abuse. Our monthly magazine is available for free on our website at www.thesoberworld.com. If you would like to receive an E-version monthly of the magazine, please send your e-mail address to [email protected] Drug addiction has reached epidemic proportions throughout the country and is steadily increasing. It is being described as “the biggest man-made epidemic” in the United States. More people are dying from drug overdoses than from any other cause of injury death, including traffic accidents, falls or guns. Many Petty thefts are drug related, as the addicts need for drugs causes them to take desperate measures in order to have the ability to buy their drugs. The availability of prescription narcotics is overwhelming; as parents our hands are tied. Doctors continue writing prescriptions for drugs such as Oxycontin, and Oxycodone (which is an opiate drug and just as addictive as heroin) to young adults in their 20’s and 30’s right up to the elderly in their 70”s, thus, creating a generation of addicts. Did you know that Purdue Pharma, the company that manufactures Oxycontin generated $3.1 BILLION in revenue in 2010? Scary isn’t it? Addiction is a disease but there is a terrible stigma attached to it. As family members affected by this disease, we are often too ashamed to speak to anyone about our loved ones addiction, feeling that we will be judged. We try to pass it off as a passing phase in their lives, and some people hide their head in the sand until it becomes very apparent such as through an arrest, getting thrown out of school or even worse an overdose, that we realize the true extent of their addiction.

provide medical supervision to help them through the withdrawal process, There are Transport Services that will scoop up your resistant loved one (under 18 yrs. old) and bring them to the facility you have chosen. There are long term Residential Programs (sometimes a year and longer) as well as short term programs (30-90 days), there are Therapeutic Boarding Schools, Wilderness programs, Extended Living and there are Sober Living Housing where they can work, go to meetings and be accountable for staying clean. Many times a Criminal Attorney will try to work out a deal with the court to allow your child or loved one to seek treatment as an alternative to jail. I know how overwhelming this period can be for you and I urge every parent or relative of an addict to get some help for yourself. There are many groups that can help you. There is Al-Anon, Alateen (for teenagers), Families Anonymous, Nar-Anon and more. This is a disease that affects the whole family, not just the parents. These groups allow you to share your thoughts and feelings. As anonymous groups, your anonymity is protected. Anything said within those walls are not shared with anyone outside the room. You share only your first name, not your last name. This is a wonderful way for you to be able to openly convey what has been happening in your life as well as hearing other people share their stories. You will find that the faces are different but the stories are all too similar. You will also be quite surprised to see how many families are affected by drug and alcohol addiction. Addiction knows no race or religion; it affects the wealthy as well as the poor, the highly educated, old, young-IT MAKES NO DIFFERENCE. This magazine is dedicated to my son Steven who graduated with top honors from University of Central Florida. He graduated with a degree in Psychology, and was going for his Masters in Applied Behavioral Therapy. He was a highly intelligent, sensitive young man who helped many people get their lives on the right course. He could have accomplished whatever he set his mind out to do. Unfortunately, after graduating from college he tried a drug that was offered to him not realizing how addictive it was and the power it would have over him. My son was 7 months clean when he relapsed and died of a drug overdose. I hope this magazine helps you find the right treatment for your loved one. They have a disease and like all diseases, you try to find the best care suited for their needs. They need help.

I know that many of you who are reading this now are frantic that their loved one has been arrested. No parent ever wants to see his or her child arrested or put in jail, but this may be your opportunity to save your child or loved one’s life. They are more apt to listen to you now than they were before, when whatever you said may have fallen on deaf ears. This is the point where you know your loved one needs help, but you don’t know where to begin.

Deaths from prescription drug overdose have been called the “silent epidemic” for years. There is approximately one American dying every 17 minutes from an accidental prescription drug overdose. Please don’t allow your loved one to become a statistic. I hope you have found this magazine helpful. You may also visit us on the web at www.thesoberworld.com.

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HOW SUBSTANCE USE AND DEPRESSION DEVELOP IN ADOLESCENT GIRLS By Fred Dyer, Ph.D, CADC

Clinicians, therapists, substance abuse counselors, mental health workers, and criminal justice workers are encountering and working with adolescent girls who present with co-morbid disorders, in addition to substance abuse disorders. There are several issues that need to be addressed to ensure that adolescent girls with comorbid disorders will achieve success in treatment. The etiology of substance abuse varies by gender and ethnicity, and there is a growing recognition that the meaning of substance use in adolescents may also vary. Teenage girls appear more willing to talk out their feelings and experiences with others. This tendency is a strength that allows for the possibility of helpful feedback or support from others, which enables girls to nurture and connect with other girls. Donovan (1996), for example, states that whereas boys tend to use alcohol for recreation and the known effect of the drug, girls have been found to use alcohol as a means of connecting to others. When faced with a drug-using group, some girls may use substances in order to not make the others feel uncomfortable by their lack of participation. Depression has been identified as a factor strongly associated with substance abuse by adolescent girls. If drug use is understood as a mechanism to cope with emotional pain, it is not difficult to comprehend this connection. Several studies have supported the prevalence of significant co-morbidity of depression and other psychiatric disorders. Depression is one of the most common comorbidities that accompany substance use for adolescent girls. Demographic Differences – Although depression can be found among children of all ages, it is more prevalent among adolescents. Rates of depressed mood tend to increase during early adolescence (ages 13 to 15), peaking at ages 17 or 18, before declining to adult levels. Although rates of major depressive disorder are equal for boys and girls during childhood, gender differences emerge during adolescence with rates among girls becoming double that of boys, similar to the female-male ratio found in adults. Co-morbidity - Many adolescent girls who present for treatment meet criteria for two or more diagnoses, a phenomenon referred to as co-morbidity. In principle, an adolescent girl could meet criteria for any two or more disorders; in practice, some combinations of disorders are much more likely to occur in girls than in boys. Disorders that frequently coexist are substance dependence, depression and anxiety disorders. Why some combinations of disorders are more prevalent than others, whether there are common features or simply definitional overlap and ambiguities of various disorders, and how co-morbidity disorders emerge, are just some of the questions research raises about girls with co-morbidity. Co-morbidity is significant in providing treatment. Many adolescent girls may suffer significant impairment in multiple domains and areas of functioning. It is important in determining co-morbidity in adolescent girls to formulate a differential diagnosis that is, simply finding out what is going on with her. This is accomplished by 1) looking at presenting symptoms; 2) looking at her history (some clinicians make the mistake of looking only at present symptoms); 3) looking at stressors in her life that exacerbate symptoms, i.e., family, environmental, developmental. Etiology of Depression in Adolescent Girls – Models to account for behaviors in adolescent girls have been posited in most areas of psychological functioning, psychopathology, and psychobiological development. Depression in adolescent girls is no exception. Research indicates several risk factors for depression for adolescent girls. Risk factors for depression in adolescent girls can emanate from multiple sources, including loss of the primary object or parent through death or abandonment and thusly, anger turned inward, which, from this psychodynamic perspective, defines depression.

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This loss produces unsatisfied affection needs and diminished selfesteem. Cognitively, depression is associated with an adolescent girl’s thinking or thought distortions. Seligman (1975) introduced the concept of learned helplessness, which basically posits the belief that “I do not have any control over my situation, and there is nothing I can do about it, so I surrender, acquiesce, because I can’t do anything about the situation.” This can or often produces depression. Learned helplessness definitely has implications for domestic violence prevention. Learned self-helpfulness vs. learned helplessness are both cognitive constructs that can be learned and unlearned. Cognitive distortions can affect an adolescent’s judgment about the social environment and the world, for example, “I must be thin in order to be successful,” or “If I am not in a relationship with a boy, then I must be inadequate.” In the cognitive approach to depression, there are three types of negative thinking, according to Beck (1979)—negative views of the self, of the world, and of the future. These views can eventuate/produce depression in adolescent girls. The whole point of learned helplessness is “I give in and I am helpless.” Behavioral formulations of depression are based on the notion that depressive symptoms are learned through interactions with the environment. Social skills deficits, as well as other skill deficiencies, may be a function of reinforcement histories. In other words, an adolescent girl, according to the behavioral theory, may become depressed because of lack of environmental reinforcement, and depressive symptoms in adolescent girls may also occur because of a lack of reinforcers in the environment. An example of depression caused by behavior reinforcement is, “If I drink with the other girls, I’ll be more acceptable to boys, because all the girls I know drink and also have boyfriends, so I drink, and I now have a boyfriend.” An example of depression as a result of poor or lack of reinforcement is, “I go out of my way to please everyone, and people still do not like me.” Life stressors/social environment – Research demonstrates that stressful life events are more frequently reported by depressed adolescent girls and the occurrence and number of stressors appears to be positively related to depression in children. It is crucial for those working with adolescent girls to understand the nature, importance, and implications of this point and to see how the role of abuse and violence and other gender-specific losses have not been addressed, i.e., physical or sexual abuse or witnessing the abusive acts which makes the adolescent girl a covictim. The stress over losses may also cause depression—losses such as: loss of self-esteem, self-worth; loss of educational and vocational opportunities; loss of health; loss of childhood; loss of control over their bodies; loss of home and sense of permanence; loss of belief, trust, faith, hope; and loss of credibility once labeled. It is apparent that, for adolescent girls, multiple losses or one that is salient or acute can very often eventuate into depression. Genetics – Research has demonstrated that genetics can influence the occurrence of depressive disorders in adolescent girls. Strober (1984) was able to demonstrate that the cases of depressed adolescents and 35% of parents and 20% of second-degree relatives were depressed, and an even larger percentage was depressed when adolescents were bipolar by diagnosis. Article References are Available upon Request Fred Dyer, PhD., CADC, is an internationally recognized speaker, trainer, author and consultant who services juvenile justice/ detention/residential programs, child welfare/foster care agencies, child and adolescent residential facilities, mental health facilities and adolescent substance abuse prevention programs in the areas of implementation and utilization of evidence-based, genderresponsive, culturally competent, and developmentally and age appropriate practices. He can be reached at [email protected] and 773-322-4825.

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THE SILENT ASSAULT ON AMERICANS WITH ADDICTIONS EDUCATION IS PARAMOUNT By: John Giordano DHL, MAC

Timothy Sutton is not unlike any other young career-minded professional trying to make a name for himself. He worked long hours and seemed to be handling the pressures of his profession quite well. That is until the 32-year-old doctor was found laying unconscious on a bathroom floor in cardiac arrest with an empty syringe and an antiseptic wipe in his hand. Sutton injected himself with Fentanyl, an opioid that has a rapid onset and short duration of action. The drug is approximately 50-100 times more potent than morphine on a dose-by-dose basis. What makes Sutton’s story unique is that he is an anesthesiologist resident at the Cardiovascular Center of the University of Michigan Hospitals. Dr. Sutton received his medical degree from Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine – one of the finest medical schools in the world. Sutton is obviously one of the best and brightest. What could possibly make a distinguished doctor of Sutton’s caliber – with such an extensive knowledge of drugs and their effects – inject himself in the neck time and again with prescription drugs meant for his patients? How could anyone so bright jeopardize their promising future? Addiction is ubiquitous. In my thirty plus years of addiction treatment I’ve been saying all along that no one just woke up one morning and said to themselves: “today, I think I’ll become an addict.” Drugs hijack a person’s brain. Not even a well educated anesthesiologist with a vast knowledge of drugs and their effects is immune. In fact, it’s quite the opposite. It’s hard not to think of doctors as being the pinnacle of health. After all, when all is said and done they’ve spent nearly ten years studying and training in the medical profession. Yet with all of these educational requirements, you’d be hard pressed to find a primary care doctor – or anyone in the field of health for that matter – who has studied addiction. It is simply not required by most medical schools. A recent comprehensive report by the National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse (CASA) discovered that: ‘of the 985,375 practicing physicians in the United States, only about 1,200 are trained in addiction medicine.’ As you can see, not even health specialists possess the skills to identify addiction in their patients much less themselves. They struggle with drug and alcohol addictions at similar or higher rates as the general population. According to a paper published in the Western Journal of Emergency Medicine, The University of California, Irvine, up to 14% of physicians, nurses and/or other health professionals have a drug and/or alcohol addiction. That translates into tens of thousands of doctors and hundreds of thousands of nurses are showing up to work everyday impaired by drugs and/or alcohol. This begs the question, with so many of our best and brightest minds – including our doctors, nurses and medical professionals – succumbing to addiction, why is there not more taught about the subject in medical schools? It is required of licensed physicians to complete one-hour of addiction continued education per year. Just one hour! What is even more concerning is that the pharmaceutical companies – who net billions of dollars annually from the sale of prescription painkillers that were involved in over sixteen-thousand preventable deaths last year – provide the required education. The CASA study found that addiction is linked to more than 70 diseases or conditions. How can a physician effectively treat a person with one of these addiction linked diseases if he doesn’t have the training or skills necessary to address addiction? In addition, addiction accounts for one-third of inpatient hospital costs. Over thirty-thousand preventable deaths occur right here in America every year because of addiction. Drug abuse

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cost the United States economy over five-hundred and sixtybillion dollars in increased health care costs, crime, and lost productivity last year and that number is on the rise. Addiction is an epidemic affecting ten to fifteen percent of our population and less than one in ten get treatment; yet only about 1,200 doctors – or .1% of the practicing physicians – are trained in addiction medicine? I fail to see the logic. It’s well established that addiction is a treatable brain disease. My good friend and colleague Dr. Kenneth Blum wrote a paper that was published in the peer-reviewed Journal of the American Medical Association (JAMA) identifying the genetic link to addiction. The paper was published twenty-five years ago. Since that time literally tens of thousands of papers on the neurobiological processes that influence addiction have been published in peer-review medical and scientific papers. With so much that has been discovered in the last thirty-years, why is there not more taught about the subject in our medical schools? These discoveries pulled back the curtain that once hid the true roots of addiction. From the science, we were able to develop new evidenced-based modalities that were proven to be effective in the treatment of addiction. Even though many of the newer holistic protocols struggle for acceptance in mainstream medicine, they have been shown to be effective. A great example is nutraceuticals. Drug abuse is very disruptive to brain chemistry. With this in mind, I began formulating my own brand of amino acid supplements intended to address this issue. Nutra Clarity is the result of over twenty years of formulation. It has become very popular among addicts in rehab and recovery as well as health minded individuals. The results have been overwhelming. People taking Nutra Clarity claim they feel an overall lift both mentally and physically. Yet with all the successes, it’s a daily struggle getting acceptance in the mainstream of medicine. Fortunately for Dr. Sutton and other doctors, recovery is not so far away. Recently I contributed to a paper with Dr Kenneth Blum – discoverer of the addiction gene – where we researched education levels of addicts in recovery. What we found was that people with higher educations had much greater success in their recovery than those with less education. Dr. Sutton is also fortunate in another way – he survived. Less than four hours before he overdosed, Carla DelVecchio, a nurse at the same center, perished from an overdose of a deadly mixture of fentanyl and the benzodiazepine midazolam. She, too, was locked in a bathroom with hospital-issued sedation medication and a syringe. For anyone paying attention, addiction has a new face. It’s that of a younger person with a promising future that looks very much like 32-year-old Dr. Sutton and 29-year-old Carla DelVecchio. If anything good is to come from Carla’s death, and others like her, it would be the acceptance of addiction for what it is – a non-discriminate, treatable brain disease – and provide the catalyst for the requirement of addiction education at our medical colleges. There is a mountain of research and studies idly collecting dust on the shelf just waiting to be shaped into a comprehensive curriculum. How many more young promising lives have to be lost before we start educating our best and brightest? John Giordano DHL, MAC is a counselor, President and Founder of the National Institute for Holistic Addiction Studies, Laser Therapy Spa in Hallandale Beach and Chaplain of the North Miami Police Department. For the latest development in cutting-edge treatment check out his website: http://www. holisticaddictioninfo.com


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NEUROSCIENCE DISCOVERIES AND THEIR IMPACT By Michael J Kuhar Ph.D

There have been many important discoveries in the neuroscience of drug abuse. These have had a big impact on how we treat and understand drug abuse, and I would like to address some of these. My views could be arguable, but they are reasonable and based on many years of study.

Let’s move on to another issue. Why does addiction occur? Why hasn’t evolution “weeded” addiction out of the human race? After all, by definition, addiction has negative consequences on our lives. A set of advances in many areas can help us look at these questions. First, we need to look at the brain as a survival organ.

We have always known that drug abuse is a highly relapsing disorder. This makes it seem like drug abuse is inevitable and unending. But this is not so. Brain imaging studies have shown that it is not always unending; it just takes a long time for the brain to heal. When the levels of an important brain chemical called “the dopamine D2 receptor (D2R)” are measured in the brains of users who are at various stages of abstinence, we find that the newly abstinent users have lower levels of D2Rs. But this changes. The longer the user is without drugs, the more the levels of D2Rs return to normal. This receptor in the brain is there for the chemical dopamine, an important substance that modulates feeling good or reward.

Whether we realize it or not, the brain guides or at least nudges us to carry out behaviors that are good for our health and survival. It guides us by making us feel good after activities such as eating when hungry, drinking when thirsty, or mating to have offspring. These “feel good” responses of the brain are crucial, because without them, our survival as an individual or species might be seriously threatened.

But the hitch is that the return to normal takes a very long time months or years. There is evidence that the rate of return varies with the individual. So, we have to cope with the fact that healing takes a longer period of time than most can spend in rehab. Instead, we need to develop ways, approaches, or techniques that allow some form of treatment to extend for a long time. It’s more like a lifestyle change. The particulars of this are left up to the user and his or her treatment professionals. Getting everyone onboard with this duration issue has to happen before we can realistically address the problem. Does extended drug use change the brain forever? Is it that once you are a user, you are always a user? Some researchers might think so, and others think no. I’m one of those who do not think so because the brain imaging data do show a return towards normalcy as was mentioned previously. Also, there are many long term users who give up certain drugs forever or for a very long time. In those cases, if the brain was changed forever by drugs, the change was not very impactful. However, because of individual variations, there may be some users who are changed forever. But, we don’t have any evidence that proves this one way or another for everyone, at least not right now. We already know that some users may require help and guidance for a long time. Overall, studies show that treatment works, and the longer treatment is given, the better.

A key thing here is that this is also how drugs work. They turn on our feel good systems in the brain. The brain becomes an unwitting co-conspirator in the addiction process because it can’t combat drugs in the brain very effectively. Feeling good every time we take drugs is a powerful reinforcer of our behavior. Reinforcing means that it causes us to want to do it again. Drug taking, for these reasons, is very powerful. In this view, the brain reinforces drug taking because it is interpreted as something important for survival. Before we can get the big picture, we need to realize that people are different. While we are all people with 46 chromosomes, we are all different in sometimes significant ways. Some have higher IQs than others. We all look different. Some are tall and others not so tall. This is, in part, because our genes are slightly different. We all have the genes needed to be a human, but, because of mutations and environmental influences; the power or effectiveness of each of our genes can vary. Just as some of us are prone to cardiovascular disease or asthma or diabetes, some of us are more prone to having problems with drugs. So where does this leave us? We have a brain that, because of the way it functions to reward survival based activities, allows drug abuse and addiction. The brain can repair itself (return to normal) when we stop taking drugs, but this takes months or years. We all have a slightly unique gene pool and slightly unique environmental experiences that leave us all with different vulnerabilities to take drugs. It seems complex. Can we make sense of this? Well, perhaps we can. We need to accept that some of us end up in trouble with drugs. If somebody is already an addict, then they know what to do. They need to find a way to get off drugs and/or minimize the damage they cause. To do that, they likely need the help of a professional. It can be a long battle. If you are worried that you or someone you know or are related to may become or is becoming an addict, then you need to assess your vulnerabilities. Are you worried about a genetic load or predisposition to drug use? Are you in a difficult environment where drugs are freely available? These vulnerabilities need to be assessed, perhaps with a professional, so that your behavior can be adjusted to keep you safe. Drug abuse can be as complex, long lasting and as complicated to treat as cardiovascular disease, asthma or late onset diabetes; treatment can encompass a number of activities that include behavioral and life style changes as well as taking medications. None of these diseases are easy to deal with and the vulnerability to get sick may always be there. They require awareness, vigilance and a persistent effort. Michael J Kuhar PhD, Yerkes National Primate Research Center of Emory University, Candler Professor of Neuropharmacology, School of Medicine, Georgia Research Alliance Scholar and Senior Fellow, Center for Ethics, Emory University. 954 Gatewood Rd NE, Atlanta GA 30322. Tel: 404 727 3274 www.emory.edu/neuroscience/Kuhar Author of The Addicted Brain: why we abuse drugs ,alcohol and nicotine.

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OPIOID DEPENDENCE—NO EVIDENCE FOR BRIEF DETOX By Dr. Robert A. Moran M.D., F.A.P.A.

Maintenance medication-assisted therapy is more effective than any other type of treatment for opioid dependence .There is no longer any medical indication for the use of short-term detoxification from opioids for the vast majority of people who have become dependent. Most studies have shown extremely high relapse rates in those who undergo short-term detox. The World Health Organization has stated that “of the treatment options examined, opioid agonist maintenance treatment, combined with psychosocial assistance, was found to be the most effective.” According to Gavin Bart, MD FACP FASAM, “Illicit use of opiates is the fastest growing substance use problem in the United States and the main reason for seeking addiction treatment services for illicit drug use throughout the world.” Treatment cannot be accomplished in a short 30 day program for the vast majority of people. Studies have shown that behavioral interventions alone have poor outcomes, with, as Bart points out more than 80% returning to drug use. In the study completed by Smyth et al, follow-up interviews were completed with 109 opiate-dependent patients admitted to a residential addiction treatment program for detoxification using methadone during the first 10 days, followed by lofexidine (an antihypertensive similar to clonidine) for 7 days. After discharge, 99 (91%) reported a relapse. In 64 (59%), relapse occurred in 1 week. There have been many studies that have replicated these results, showing high relapse rates after short-term detoxification— typically 90% relapse rate during taper. What drives these high relapse rates? The persistent desire to get high? Probably not. Once the individual has developed addiction, science has shown us that the brain has changed. Those circuits in the brain which subserve the functions of motivation/reward, behavioral inhibition, mood regulation, and drive have been changed. In opioid dependence, the natural opioid system, the endogenous opioids—endorphins, enkephalins, dynophins, have all been imbalanced by the chronic presence of the exogenous (the illicit) opioid. The opioid system in the brain is directly or indirectly involved in many different functions including pain regulation, mood regulation, respiration, heart rate, and cognitive function, such as planning, decision-making, and the capacity for delayed gratification. When an individual abruptly ceases to use illicit opiates/opioids, e.g. upon initiation of detoxification, all of these functions are naturally affected. The degree and rapidity to which they “normalize” will differ from person to person. It is naïve to think this will happen at the same rate (for example, in 7-10 days) and to the same degree (for example, completely) in every opiate/opioiddependent individual who undergoes detoxification. The protracted withdrawal may continue for many months; that is, the changes that were induced in the brain as a result of the months or years of illicit opiate/opioid use, and it is this that continues to maintain the high risk of relapse. It is very difficult to resist this. Add to this either stress or cues (people, places, or things) which will flood the brain with memories directly stimulating the part of the brain which has hitherto been stimulated by the drug itself and it is only a very small minority who will be able to maintain abstinence. Methadone, buprenorphine, and naltrexone have been approved by the FDA for the treatment of opioid dependence. Methadone is a full opioid agonist at the mu receptor, acting much like all the other opioids and requires the individual to attend the clinic on a daily basis for the dosage of medicine. Naltrexone is an antagonist which helps by blocking the effect of any ingested/injected opioid and therefore decreasing any positive reinforcement. Buprenorphine is unique in that it is a partial agonist at the mu

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receptor and also an antagonist at the kappa receptor. These properties of buprenorphine confer extremely important differences upon it. Most individuals do not experience euphoria. The kappa receptor is responsible for anxiety and dysphoric mood; therefore, by blocking this receptor, buprenorphine helps to treat these symptoms. There is also evidence that buprenorphine helps to normalize the stress-response system (repairing the brain) which has been damaged by the illicit opiates/opioids. It was everyone’s hope in 2000 when the Drug Addiction Treatment Act paved the way for physicians in 2002 to obtain a special waiver to prescribe buprenorphine for opioid dependence that finally we had a medicine available that would enable the opioid-dependent individual to be detoxified comfortably and effectively in a short period of time, and then move on to rehabilitation to learn the appropriate relapse prevention skills and coping mechanisms enabling the individual to live a productive drug-free life. Unfortunately, our experience began to teach us that it was not so easy. What we in addiction psychiatry quickly began to learn was what the above-mentioned studies revealed, that is, that the vast majority of people who underwent rapid detoxification from buprenorphine relapsed, no matter how motivated they were to remain abstinent. One patient described his experience this way: “I have tried every way possible to get clean. Over the past year alone, I have been in and out of six treatment centers. I’ve never been able to successfully complete a program because my urge to use, combined with the withdrawals were to [sic] great to bare.” So how long should someone who initially is prescribed buprenorphine remain on buprenorphine? The answer given on a recent board-certification examination was “as long as it seems to be helping”. The fact is, the research is still being done in an attempt to answer this question. Studies have been done looking at increasing lengths of time on buprenorphine leading to retaining individuals in treatment at their most vulnerable time. The longer people remain in treatment, the more likely they are to be successful in recovery. And, of course, further time in treatment is giving the brain more time to heal. If buprenorphine is helping the brain to heal, then those circuits responsible for impulse control, judgment, decision-making, anxiety, tolerance, and mood regulation will improve over time in its presence. Why would we want to prematurely deprive the individual of a medicine that might enhance the repair of these processes? Once we see evidence that the brain is functioning well in these areas—that is, the individual is maintaining sobriety, attending 12-step meetings, working a strong program, establishing healthy relationships, coping well with life’s daily stressors, then perhaps that is truly the ideal time to begin a very slow tapering off of buprenorphine. Ultimately, only further scientific study will tell us for sure. Article References are Available upon Request Dr. Robert A Moran is the CEO and Medical Director, Wellington Retreat, Inc., Diplomate, American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology, Certified in General Psychiatry and Addiction Psychiatry, Diplomate, American Board of Addiction Medicine, Certified in Addiction Medicine, Clinical Instructor in Psychiatry, Weill Cornell Medical College, Voluntary Assistant Professor of Psychiatry & Behavioral Sciences, University of Miami Miller School of Medicine, Affiliate Clinical Assistant Professor, Charles E. Schmidt College of Biomedical Science at Florida Atlantic University and Adjunct Clinical Assistant Professor of Psychiatry and Neurology, Lake Erie College of Osteopathic Medicine www.WellingtonRetreat.com


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THE HARMFUL IMPACT OF ROMANTICIZING MARIJUANA By Noel Neu, MS, LMHC

Lately I have been reading how marijuana is safe and wonderful, and how it will change your life for the better. All over social media, there is a buzz on how this wonder-drug will benefit your life. One recent posting with a background of cannabis paraphernalia stated the following: “When I first started smoking marijuana I planned on saving it only for special days, little did I know that every day would become a special day.” Another posting’s headline read “12 ways how marijuana can improve your life.” Not that pro-cannabis rallying and extolling is anything new, as it has been part of anti-government backlash hyperbole for at least the past 50 years. However, at this time the grand romanticizing of cannabis has become more commonplace and accepted with the legalization of it in two states and growing. Currently I am neither for nor against the legalization of marijuana in our society. As I see it, legalizing it can lead to regulation of the drug so that more accurate statistics and concrete research can be made to its ill-effects as well as any perceived benefits. What I do want to make claim to is the antiromanticizing of marijuana as it does have powerfully harmful results when used chronically in a family setting. The following is my experience, strength, and hope both personally and professionally over the past twenty five years. Marijuana is a central nervous system suppressant. This means it lowers the reaction time of nervous system processes. This includes impairment physically, mentally, and yes, emotionally. The result is a disconnection from what is really happening in life, and the creation of an illusion. I discovered that once living in this illusion the only way I could maintain stasis (feeling ok) is to continuously inhale marijuana into my system on a daily basis. My own romanticizing of marijuana began while I was in college. I became truly successful as I committed to doing well in school for the first time after I got to college, which is around the same time that I discovered this wonderful “high” of being stoned which resulted in a contrived sense of being “free.” I became convinced that I had figured it all out. I could be successful in school and smoke all I want as long as I did not mix the two. Which I did not do ever, thus, feeling in control. I did want the illusion of feeling “free” to last as long as I could make it. Around ten years later I hit a bottom spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and yes, physically in a career that I could not stand, with a life that I did not want, and a belief that I needed to continue smoking marijuana to feel anything. This is called addiction and marijuana is a drug that you can become addicted to. Marijuana is a-motivational, isolating, and distracting to any sense of what is really important in life. It creates what I call the “legend in my own mind syndrome.” This means that no real connection with self, with a power greater than self, nor with any real support system is ever genuinely made. Just a series of if-only scenarios that occur one after another that leave the chronic marijuana smoker with the belief that they are a victim of his/her time or of any perceived or actual societal factors. This victim belief is carried over in dealings with family, neighbors, work peers, and friendships. Most friendships to a chronic (daily) marijuana smoker are steeped in the procuring, smoking, and pontificating of marijuana and all that it “cures.” This leads to a life unfulfilled unless filled with the drug that is believed to be so very good for you. In my first year of early recovery I bumped up against another difficulty, in that marijuana was perceived as not being a real problem compared to crack cocaine or heroin. Fortunately for me I had a major support that helped me to see that marijuana recovery is more challenging. Since it has been downplayed

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and minimized, the result often ends up with an enabling of the problem. Honestly, nobody celebrates crack or heroin addiction, but the celebration of smoking marijuana to heal your problems has become increasingly stronger and louder. In my 16 years since my last use of marijuana, I have learned about who I am as a person. My strengths, weaknesses, my hopes, goals, and dreams. I have learned that this plant that I was ingesting was not the cause of my problems, however, it contributed to me not being able to get to the cause which was actually my faulty belief that I needed a drug to enter my system to feel free and alive. Professionally over the past 12 years, I have had the privilege to work with many young men and women, as well as adolescent boys and girls, experiencing the spectrum of marijuana use, from abuse to dependence. Romanticizing marijuana from them makes sense, since they have been unsure of themselves as well as the difficult challenges that life has put in front of them. Unfortunately for them the result has been the stunting of their growth as human beings in their abilities to communicate and effectively connect with their families and themselves. This is the essence to my desire of anti-romanticizing marijuana. It is my hope that with the continued legalization of marijuana, a device to detect marijuana levels similar to breath devices for blood-alcohol levels will be developed to further analyze the impairments marijuana causes while driving. In addition, with marijuana being freely admitted to being smoked, better analysis of lung diseases can be researched to determine correlation to marijuana intake much like the research being completed on cigarette smoking. Any argument that marijuana is “better” for you than alcohol or cigarettes is counterproductive. More than often, this argument is made by people very determined to smoke marijuana on a daily basis because they need to. The confusion with being under the influence of cannabis is that it has the user believe that they want to use it rather than need to use it. This keeps the illusion that all is under control, and smoking marijuana to reduce stress on a daily basis is the solution. This is the same argument made by functional alcoholics who do not believe they have a problem. Let’s not romanticize it. If we are going to legalize it, let’s put it into the category that suits it, with alcohol and cigarettes, where it can truly be regulated and thoroughly researched. Then we can help those addicted to marijuana to get the help they need and not be told “it’s just marijuana.” I believe this is the true path to freedom – Believe in Yourself and Follow Your Truth. No “wonder drug” is necessary. Noel Neu, MS, LMHC is the CEO and clinical director of Empathic Recovery (www.empathicrecovery.com). Mr. Neu has been a clinician in private practice for over ten years and has developed programs for “Assertive Awareness” training, “Living your Truth” to build self-esteem, and helping families with addictions heal.


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“DEATH OF SOBER HOME” LEGISLATION HIGHLIGHTS NEED FOR ACTION By John Lehman

Once again, this year’s “Sober Home” legislative initiative failed to make its way to the Governor for signature. But, unlike previous years, it was a close race right up to the wire. Though Senate Bill 582 & House Bill 479 entered their respective chambers as identical legislation, HB 479 was entirely rewritten by the time it made its way out of Representative Gail Harrell’s Healthy Families Subcommittee. The bill was transformed from requiring mandatory registration of all sober home transitional living programs, their owners and locations into a voluntary, self-regulatory approach consistent with that suggested by the Florida Association of Recovery Residences (FARR). Under the revised version, HB 479 called for DCF to outsource certification to an independent, nonprofit organization that holds Recovery Residences accountable to a nationally recognized set of standards. This version was passed by the House and sent to the Senate where, unfortunately, its companion bill 582, died in appropriations before an opportunity to reconcile these two legislative initiatives could be negotiated. Despite their many differences, one notable similarity present in both bills was a date specific for when it would become a first degree misdemeanor for a licensed Florida treatment provider to make a referral to a non-certified residence. While FARR recognizes that there are those who believe government regulation is necessary to compel compliance with consumer protections, it has long been our position that the substance abuse treatment community is already sufficiently motivated. The vast majority already agree that case managers, therapists and discharge planners should restrict referrals to certified residences. Do we need the threat of a misdemeanor violation to compel us to do what is in the best interest of the client and the industry as a whole? The real challenge centers on the number of certified beds. It’s a chicken versus egg dilemma. The availability of certified beds must increase to match the demand before treatment providers can fully embrace this practice. Caron Renaissance, and a handful of others, have actively encouraged recovery residences to seek FARR Certification for some time now. Their message has been consistent: “Get organized and hold yourselves accountable to these standards or the state is going to do it for you.” To be clear; if at the time we enter the next legislative session, FARR does not represent the majority of Florida transitional housing programs, our argument in favor of voluntary self-regulation will fall on deaf ears. The community needs to begin asking those who market themselves to treatment providers “Are your FARR Certified?” and to set a date specific for when FARR Certification will be a requirement for future referrals. FARR recommends the adoption of July 1, 2015. This is the date that was proposed by HB 479. Provided residence operators act now and do not procrastinate further, mid2015 provides sufficient time to achieve this task and demonstrate to lawmakers that our industry is motivated to clean house without further threat of punitive action. The FARR Partner in Excellence program centers on this imperative as well as the need for the treatment community to help finance our mission. The integrity of FARR Certification requires we conduct impromptu, unscheduled “audit inspections”, in addition to our initial and annual visits. The annual budget for these audits exceeds $50,000; funds that must be sourced from outside the recovery residence community. Having travelled extensively throughout the state to meet with hundreds of owner/operators, it is my personal assessment that most housing providers want to do “the right thing”. Many of these have requested education and training to help them better achieve that goal. “Best Practices” content, designed specifically for this sector and mindful of the four levels of support as defined

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BETTER PARENTING – THE “MOST PAINFUL” PART OF RECOVERY By Marlene Passell, Communications Coordinator – Wayside House

Rhonda Fritzhall is a parent educator on a special mission – helping addicted mothers become better parents - even while they are in treatment for their addictions. “They often are angry, sad and feeling guilty – they tell me that dealing with their parenting issues is the most difficult part of recovery,” said Ms. Fritzhall, who teaches parenting to the growing number of women at Wayside House in Delray Beach, FL, who are mothers. More and more national research is honing in on the benefits of including parenting training in addiction treatment. And the number of mothers needing such help is staggering. Children of Addicts Substance abuse among women is a serious problem for parenting and represents considerable human and financial burden to society. Estimates suggest that 50-80% of child welfare cases involve a parent who abuses alcohol or other drugs and mothers make up the majority of substance-abusing parents in the child welfare system, according to the Harm Reduction Journal. In the United States, up to 70% of women in substance abuse treatment have children. Rates of substance abuse in women have been increasing and substance abuse in women also is associated with a greater and unique set of risk factors and needs than men, greater prevalence of mental health problems, histories of physical or sexual abuse, serious medical problems, poor nutrition, relationship problems including domestic violence, and lack of social support. The unique risk factors and needs of women have resulted in the development of women-specific comprehensive treatment models. However, in addition to having gender-specific needs, women with substance abuse issues also have unique needs as mothers. Research has shown that women who abuse substances may have difficulties providing stable, nurturing environments for their children compounded by challenging life circumstances, including severe economic and social problems, such as lack of affordable housing and homelessness. Their children are at greater risk for impaired physical growth, development, and health, poor cognitive functioning and school performance, emotional and behavioral problems, psychiatric disorders, and substance use themselves. Despite their best intentions, women with substance abuse issues are at risk for a wide range of parenting deficits. Parenting among mothers with substance abuse issues is often impaired by mothers’ focus on satisfying their addiction over the welfare of themselves and their children. Also, women with substance abuse issues often have high levels of co-occurring psychological and personality problems which can impair their emotional ability to be a good parent. Parenting and Recovery As maternal substance abuse is a growing problem, there is an urgent need to identify effective interventions. Treatment for mothers with substance abuse issues and their children may represent an important opportunity for breaking the intergenerational cycle of addiction and dysfunction and improving parenting. However, women with substance abuse issues report difficulties using conventional systems of care (for reasons including fear of losing custody of children, guilt, stigma, and lack of transportation), and request comprehensive services provided in a caring, ‘one-stop’ setting. Given the barriers, risks, and outcome implications, researchers, clinicians, and policy makers recommend that substance abuse treatment programs address women’s needs as well as their children’s needs through comprehensive, integrated services in centralized settings for both women and children. This recognition has resulted in the development of numerous integrated treatment programs (those that include parenting- or child-related services with addiction services), both residential and outpatient. Parenting is an important outcome of intervention because it impacts child outcomes. Studies of parenting interventions with other atrisk populations have shown that improving parenting can improve outcomes for children. If intervention for mothers with substance abuse issues is successful in improving parenting outcomes, it may reduce costs (in terms of foster care placement, emergency room visits, medical and psychiatric admissions, child treatment, crime,

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etc.) and enhance healthcare and social service delivery. Overcoming Parenting Challenges Ms. Fritzhall, who teaches a nationally recognized parenting curriculum called S.T.E.P., as well as an international evidencebased program called Triple P, said there are additional challenges in trying to change parent-child relationships among addicted women. “Before we can focus on different approaches to discipline and bonding and talk about child development, addicted women must deal with the guilt, shame and sadness they feel, that may even be affecting their ability to battle their addictions,” she said. She provides the parenting education program once per week for 90 minutes as part of the variety of therapies women in residential treatment at Wayside House undergo. “What they want, what we all want for them, is to put families back together. The parenting portion of treatment is crucial to that,” Ms. Fritzhall added. As with all mothers, addicted mothers have parented the way they were parented, and, for many, that was not a positive experience. “They have to learn new skills, new ways to bond with their children who have already been negatively affected by their mothers’ addiction. They have to learn child development so they understand that not all their children’s behavior is tied to their addiction – some is just related to a specific stage of a child’s development.” Lisa McWhorter, clinical director of Wayside House, said parenting education has been added because of the growing number of their residential clients who are mothers. “We’re asking them to face all their demons in order to end their addictions – their relationships with their children are a huge part of that for many of them,” she said. [Research for this article is from the Harm Reduction Journal] Marlene Passell is the marketing and communications director for Wayside House in Delray Beach, FL

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INTERVIEW WITH MARK LUNDHOLM By Patricia Rosen

Mark Lundholm is a comedian who performs both nationally and internationally finding humor in recovery and the struggles of addiction. Mark has been clean for 25 years since 1988. He believes that finding humor in an unhealthy situation removes the shame, lessens the threat and invites trust in conversation. He had performed on Friday, May 9 at the Borland Center. This was an event sponsored by Within Books Boutique Café, a recovery bookstore, café and meeting place (they actually hold meetings there). If anyone remembers the movie “You’ve Got Mail” with Meg Ryan, this reminds me of the bookstore she worked invery quaint. I always get this totally relaxed feeling when I enter and it was the perfect place to interview him and have a delicious cup of coffee! Patricia: Thank you for taking time out of your busy schedule to interview with The Sober World. Mark: Thank you. I am a big fan of The Sober World. Patricia: Thank you. What brings you to Florida?

in my sophomore year, started selling dope and began losing friends. My memory and passion for just about everything was gone. I didn’t care about anything but the drugs- not my social life, women nothing. Patricia: What was your turning point or “aha” moment that finally got you sober? Mark: At 25 I got married, at 26 I abandoned my wife and child, at 27 I was homeless and at 28 years old I was 128lbs and living on the streets. I didn’t want to live anymore. I put a gun in my mouth and pulled the trigger. The gun jammed and my first thought was, “I can’t even do this right”! It’s funny now but back then, I was devastated. That was my first “aha” moment. I didn’t know what to do next. I always knew what to do or say to get what I want and this was the first time in my life that I was at a loss. Patricia: That’s pretty scary stuff.

Mark: The Within bookstore in partnership with The Treatment Center asked me to do a friend raiser, attention getter style comedy show. Its recovery based and “normie “friendly.

Mark: Scary isn’t the word. I realized I was powerless and I had hit my bottom. I was out of options. My family was sick, so they couldn’t help me. I did this all to myself. I chose the streets over self-respect and gainful employment. I needed to figure this out on my own.

Patricia: I understand they sold out the venue.

Patricia: So what did you do?

Mark: Yes, there isn’t a seat left.

Mark: I went to Gladman Hospital in Oakland, California and spent 30 days in inpatient, and from there went to a 6 months extended care sober home where most of the guys were coming out or going into jail.

Patricia: I am sure all our readers would like to know what inspired you to do comedy, and more specifically, sober comedy. Why don’t we start with what it was like for you growing up and a little of your family life. Mark: I am the oldest of 5 children. I have 9 parents. My mom and dad were serial marriers.Dad married 4 x’s and mom 3xs.I came from a place of confusion on a daily basis, so humor worked well. I don’t speak to any of them today. Patricia: I listened to an interview in which you stated that in your home while growing up there was a fine line between discipline and abuse. Could you explain what that meant? Mark: In my home, abuse was called discipline. That was in the 60’s, different times. We didn’t learn discipline which is boundaries. I learned abuse which means being afraid. I have a 7 year old son that has learned discipline. He has learned that gently. I did not learn that in my home. Patricia: Did your parents abuse drugs or alcohol? Mark: Yes, yes and they still do. Patricia: How did that affect you growing up? Mark: They couldn’t do any better than they did. In a dysfunctional family even doing your best is insufficient to teach a child how make it in the real world.

Patricia: How did you get into comedy? Mark: Someone asked me to participate in a comedy show and that was it. I have been doing it ever since. Patricia: Have you ever relapsed? Mark: No Patricia: How do you stay clean? Mark: I am extremely grateful. Grateful for my sobriety and grateful for the gun never going off. I have a beautiful life now. I have 3 children and I stay close to the road to watch for signs. There are always signs of relapse. If I decide to relapse it’s because I want to. I stay involved by giving back .I sponsor people, go to meetings, visit prisons and treatment centers. As a matter of fact I just came from The Treatment Center and put on a private show for everyone there. If I do all this, I am most likely to see signs of relapse before I even veer off the road. What happens to people like me is, I want to get loaded but I don’t want to die. I need to stay close to the process. I have been doing this for 25 years and I love life. Patricia: Do you have anything you would like to say to those struggling with addiction or those in recovery?

Patricia: So there really wasn’t any guidance. When was the first time you used drugs. I don’t know if I heard right but I thought I heard you say in an interview that you took your first sip of beer at 5 yrs. old! Or was that baby aspirin at 5?

Mark: This year, this will change your whole life- this year if you have to keep it a secret- DON’T DO IT!

Mark: No, the St. Joseph baby aspirin which was orange flavored was when I think I was 3. It had this orange taste and I thought it tasted great. My first sip of beer was at age 5. My father actually gave that to me. It was like my right of passage.

I did see Mark perform and he was truly amazing. He had everyone laughing the entire night. He had 525 alcoholic/addicts and those who love them all gathered together for an evening of FUN and Sobriety. I am looking forward to Mark returning next year!

Patricia: So your father liked to drink? Mark: Yes, and there were times I took terrible beatings from him when he was drunk. Actually, even times when he was sober. A drunk without alcohol can be very mean. Patricia: So, your drug/alcohol use started early. Mark: Well, between the ages of 5 and 21 it was all manageable. I was very athletic, did well in school and was sociable so there were a lot of distractions and I was able to hide my using. The chemicals weren’t a constant in my life until my 20’s Patricia: What happened then? Mark: The drugs became a constant in my life. I dropped out of college

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Patricia: I like that….. I am looking forward to your show on Friday. Mark: I hope you enjoy it.

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SHARING THE GIFT OF RECOVERY WITH CHILDREN By Debra Alessandra

The on-going cycle of addiction in families is well documented. More than 26 million children endure the challenge of parental substance abuse in their home. These children often experience strong and persistent feelings of anxiety, sadness, anger, confusion, depression and fear. The impact of this disease spans well into their adult life. Long term behavioral, academic, health, and social problems persist past the time of childhood. Not surprisingly, studies show these children are four times more likely to have a drinking problem themselves. Thus, if left untreated, the generational cycle continues.

One particular method I propose is a combination of reading and writing activities often referred to as bibliotherapy. Whether in a therapeutic setting or solely implemented by a parent with their child, these activities can help children build selfesteem, reduce feelings of isolation, and in this case, gain an understanding of the spiritual principles of recovery. Reading age-appropriate material provides a simple way to begin a conversation which may be challenging. Characters and events separate from their own life circumstance encourages children to talk openly, alleviates their confusion, and helps them problem solve.

Until the family embraces a recovery based lifestyle, extra supports can be helpful. Extended family members, mentors, members of the clergy, teachers, even neighbors play important roles. They may offer encouragement, give useful information, present coping tools, lend a listening ear, or provide a safe haven. All efforts on children’s behalf are valuable.

Families who remain engaged and supportive of each other in the healing process make dramatic and positive strides towards the health and happiness of all members of the family system.

School guidance counselors may suggest appropriate resources which offer support and teach life skills, often in the company of peers with similar issues. Teenage children can contact their area Ala-teen group.

Debra Alessandra is a life-long educator and the author of 12 Steps 12 Stories. For more information visit her website: www.12steps12stories.com

As parents navigate their path of recovery, children may feel confused and excluded. It is paramount to their sense of wellbeing to help them understand the changes that come with a parent’s sobriety. Children need to be included in family recovery programs.

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GETTING UNSTUCK: BREAK FREE FROM ADDICTIVE PATTERNS Douglas Schooler, Ph.D

When you’re buried in an avalanche, the weight of the snow squeezing the air out of you, you carve out some breathing space and use your mind to stay calm while you wait for the rescue team. You need professional assistance to break free. You know they’re out there looking for you. Meanwhile you do something effective to conserve your oxygen supply. Someone buried in addiction has the advantage of knowing that in today’s world the rescue team is as close as your cellphone. Skilled professionals are ready to dig you out. But what can you do now, on your own, to give yourself some breathing room and begin your liberation from the weight of addiction? The first thing is to realize that even though stuck may feel like forever, it is temporary. In fact the concept of “stuck” is itself a bit of an illusion. Life is not static, it’s always moving, but sometimes the movement is not noticeable. But things are either getting better or getting worse. As you realize this you begin to notice your own direction and then take effective action to create “better and better every day.” NEGATION When people come to see me they have a fairly clear idea of what they don’t want. They don’t want the pain, the suffering, the despair. But they rarely have a clear idea of what they desire. The past and present have overshadowed their view of the future. So the first step is to begin to conceive of the desired future. Create a vision of the life you want to live, make that vision detailed and specific. Doing this is a huge step in getting unstuck. PAST-PRESENT-FUTURE CONFUSION When you’re stuck it can seem hopeless, impossible. Jim, let’s call him, sat across from me and with a tone of despair in his voice said “Drinking is all I know. It’s who I am. When I get up in the morning the first thing I think about is a drink. I can’t stop.” Jim is stuck, depressed and feeling hopeless. But what’s been keeping him stuck is not so much the chemistry of addiction, but his way of thinking and that is revealed in his language. First of all, he’s making the error of thinking that “the way it has been is the way it always will be.” This is a very prevalent view and IT’S WRONG! It’s like a toddler thinking “I’ve always peed in my diaper-there’s no way I’ll ever use a toilet.” Let’s translate Jim’s statement into an unstuck version: Drinking is all I’ve known. It’s felt like who I am. I’ve gotten up every day thinking about drinking. I haven’t been able to stop. “Do you see the difference? Put the past in the past tense. It will change your thinking. IDENTITY The second thing keeping Jim stuck is his view of who he is, his view of his IDENTITY. If one thinks of his addiction as who he is, it makes breaking free much more difficult. Identity is something fixed and unchanging; it’s who we are at our very core. And our beliefs about ourselves are a big deal because they largely determine what we think is possible. So let’s be clear: behavior is not identity, thoughts are not identity, feelings are not identity, your body is not who you are, and you certainly are not what you eat. Let’s adopt a view of who you really are that’s more useful: You are, at your very core, at the quantum level, pure energy, pure consciousness. You are a child of the universe. You are, as astronomer Carl Sagan pointed out long ago, Starstuff. You have within you atomic particles that come from the Big Bang, the cosmic event that started our Universe. As pure consciousness, pure energy, you are infinite. Try on this view of yourself. What does it feel like to think of your identity this way? TRAUMATIC EVENTS Everyone knows that disturbing or traumatic events affect people. But the common view is that events cause emotions

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directly. Let’s think another way: Events affect the mind and it’s the mind that causes emotion. Prove this to yourself by realizing that people who experienced the same event often have completely different reactions. For example, a soldier who loses a leg may feel great relief in knowing he’s going home alive, but a man the same age that has the same injury from a car crash may be emotionally devastated. Same physiology, different emotionality. If it’s the mind that causes the emotion resulting from a traumatic event then if we adjust the mind we can adjust the emotion. If someone is disturbed by the memory of an event, then we know for sure the event is finished. Because memories are always about stuff that’s not happening. So the first thing to realize is that the event is over, done, not happening, and not in existence. Just knowing this brings some relief. You got through it, and the worse that it was then, the better it is now that it’s finished. A trained mental health professional can assist in getting this awareness to the deepest levels of the mind. But begin now yourself to know that it’s finished, you got through it, and you gained wisdom from it, painful as it was when it was happening. Secondly, the MEANING of the painful event must be noticed and if the meaning itself is causing pain, that meaning must be challenged. Because it’s just a meaning, an invention of the mind, and therefore distorted and an illusion. The mind of a wolf, lion, or tiger doesn’t attach meaning to events. When the pack of hyenas chases the lion off its kill, the lion is not thinking he’s a coward for not standing up to them. He’s not feeling humiliated and ashamed. The event has no particular meaning, just something that happened that was disturbing when it happened. But now, just a few minutes later, his mind is completely focused on getting more food. He’s fully present. Wouldn’t it be useful if the human mind worked this way? Try it on. Think of events as having no particular meaning, like for example, a tornado. We don’t like the tornado, it’s really disturbing, but what does it mean? We can view events involving humans the same way we think about a tornado. He did that to me, it was painful. But it doesn’t mean anything about me or even about life itself. It’s something that happened that’s finished. Try one these ways of thinking like you might try on a new pair of shoes. Walk in them for a while and you might find them getting more and more comfortable. Dr. Doug Schooler is a Licensed Psychologist and Certified Master Practitioner of Rapid Resolution Therapy. He maintains an independent practice of psychology in Boca Raton, providing treatment to all ages since 1985 (www.DouglasSchooler.com). Before coming to Florida he taught psychology at Eastern Michigan University. He graduated from Queens College in 1964 and received his PhD in psychology from the University of Rhode Island in 1976.

A LOOK INSIDE OF AN EQUINE ASSISTED PSYCHOTHERAPY SESSION…

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by Lizabeth Olszewski, Executive Director of Horses Healing Hearts In Equine Assisted Psychotherapy, horses serve as a metaphor to life. No matter how we try to hold onto our defenses, our lives show up in the arena. People often ask me to explain what happens in an EAP session, so the following is an inside glimpse. As six clients and two horses shared the arena, my facilitator and I asked the clients to build something that represented trust using the poles and barrels. The group put a pole on top of two bases, making a small “jump” around 3 inches off of the ground - something very easy for a horse to step over. They then tried to get the horse to step over the pole. They pushed and pulled, but the 1,500 pound horses legs would not move. One client had a brilliant idea – food! They stood a few feet in front of the pole holding out the grass. The horse stretched and twisted her neck to eat it, but refused to step over the pole. Even after they removed the pole, the horse still refused to step forward. The horse started turning her head and neck to the right and left looking behind. She then “looked back” – alternating sides, 17 times inside of ten minutes. My facilitator and I both knew there was a reason; but it would wait until we processed with the clients to find out why. As we began processing what the horse could represent, one client shared, “The horse is the addict. The pole is sobriety. As we stood in front of the horse, we were like our families, trying everything to get the “addict” over the pole into detox.” Another client noticed as they held out their “bribe,” “we were standing right in the way of where we were asking the horse/addict to step. That’s what our family does. They try so hard to do it for us; but sometimes they’re right in our way.” We asked why the horse kept turning and looking back. At first, they all agreed they noticed it was happening but no one knew why. Quietly, a client mentioned, “I think I know why. My therapist said until I stop looking into my past, I’m never going to get better.” Horses Healing Hearts (a 501c3 organization) specializes in EAP for clients in recovery and those wanting to improve parenting skills. www.HHHUSA.org


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THE COMMUNITY REINFORCEMENT AND FAMILY TRAINING (CRAFT) A PROVEN METHOD TO GUIDE YOUR LOVED ONE INTO TREATMENT By Robert J. Meyers, Ph.D

Community Reinforcement and Family Training (CRAFT) teaches the Concerned Significant Others or CSOs to increase their impact by changing their behavior towards treatment-resistant loved ones. No more nagging, pleading or threatening. CRAFT is a systematized program that teaches CSOs to analyze and modify their way of interacting with their substance mis-using loved one to begin to change their actions in a positive way. The results enable CSOs to gently, but firmly, change their behavior to only take care of themselves and to also stop enabling behavior. In addition, CRAFT emphasizes the importance of CSOs attending to their own needs even while helping their loved ones; needs that have too often taken a back seat to the demands of loving a substanceabuser. Traditionally, most families who reach out to professionals for help were given two options. The first was to participate in Al-Anon, a support group that adapts the twelve steps to help people realize that they have absolutely no power over their loved ones drinking (or other addictive behaviors). This approach has helped millions of families get support from others in similar situations, and to refocus their energy onto themselves. But what if a family member’s goal is not to detach but to effectively intervene in the life of the addict? Those persons were offered an Intervention, the approach most often portrayed in popular media as the “go-to” strategy to get someone in denial to accept help for their addiction. The Intervention, though it also has worked for many families is fraught with problems. The first of which is the confrontational nature of the approach is often too uncomfortable for the families to follow through to say nothing about the discomfort for the substance abuser. The primary mechanism for the Intervention is to confront the abuser with the pain, shame and fear that his or her behavior has caused for the family. The idea is to emotionally overwhelm the mis-users so that their denial is shattered and they accept the invitation to be whisked away to a treatment center. In opposition to the confrontational surprise party in an Intervention or the acceptance of powerlessness in Al-Anon, CRAFT teaches families that they can be a powerful influence. In fact they are even more powerful if they use a positive, non-confrontational approach to help their loved ones. CRAFT uses positive interactions overtime to gradually decrease defensiveness, increase positive attachment and eventually influence the behavior of their loved one. The power inherent in the relationship is anchored in psychological principles of learning. CRAFT clients learn to use positive and negative reinforcement and extinction to variously reinforce and discourage target behaviors. Patterns of enabling are identified and modified. Clients learn to recognize these patterns and learn new ways to deal with them. From recognizing enabling in others, CSOs learn to carefully review their own enabling behaviors and come to grips with the need to allow their loved ones to experience the natural consequences of their behavior. Over the past two decades, CRAFT has been refined in federallyfunded clinical trials. Compared to traditional interventions, CRAFT has consistently resulted in greater rates of treatment engagement for resistant substance abusers and significantly greater degrees of improvement in the well-being of their CSOs. After learning CRAFT, CSOs report: • They feel renewed hope as they return to caring for their personal needs •

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the 12-step program and to get their drinkers into treatment, (2) Johnson Institute Intervention to prepare the CSO for a family meeting designed to push the drinker into treatment, and (3) CRAFT, which taught behavioral change skills and strategies for guiding the drinker into treatment. All three treatments were manual-based and included 12 hours of contact over a six month period. By the end of the study, CSOs in the CRAFT group were significantly more effective in engaging their resistant drinkers into treatment (64%) than were CSOs in the Al-Anon group (13%), or the Johnson Institute (30%) interventions (Miller, et al., 1999). The effectiveness of CRAFT extends to illicit drug users as well. In a pilot study by Meyers, et al. (1999), an engagement rate of 74% of drug users was obtained for 62 CRAFT-trained CSOs. Controlled clinical trials with illicit drug users had similar strong outcomes. Kirby, et al. (1999), produced a 64% engagement rate for CRT (an earlier version of CRAFT) compared to 17% for a 12step intervention in a controlled trial with a fairly balanced CSO population of primarily Anglos and Hispanics. In a recent randomized clinical trial, 90 CSOs of illicit drug users were assigned to one of three treatments: (1) CRAFT, (2) CRAFT plus group-based aftercare, or (3) Al-Anon/Nar-Anon Facilitation Therapy (Al-Nar FT) in an individual format (Meyers, et al., 2002). Most of the CSOs in this study were female (88%), half were Hispanic, and the majority were either parents or romantic partners of the drug user. As in prior studies, a significant relationship was found between CSO group assignment and treatment engagement rates of the substance abusers. CSOs that had CRAFT training were able to elicit agreement to treatment in 58.6% of the cases. Those in the CRAFT + aftercare group engaged 76.7% of their loved ones. CSOs who participated in the Al-Nar FT group engaged their loved ones in 29.0% of the cases. The difference between the Al-Nar FT group and the two CRAFT groups was statistically significant. CRAFT is a skills based program that is administered by trained professionals in individual and group settings to Concerned Significant Others (CSO) s. The approach first analyzes the addictive behavior of the loved one, so that positive interventions that can compete with using can be designed and implemented by the CSO. The process then moves on to improving communication skills of the CSO, so that a stronger connection between the substance abuser and the CSO begins to take shape. This is further developed by training the CSO to engage in positive reinforcement strategies that reward sobriety and other healthy behaviors. The CSO is also taught to recognize the natural consequences of using, and allow the substance abuser to experience those consequences without interference. These interventions leave the CSO feeling empowered and often result in a lessening of anger, anxiety and depression. However, we also devote some time directly to helping the CSO improve the quality of his/her life. The time spent improving the happiness and contentment of a CSO pays off by increases in self-esteem, self-confidence, and resiliency thereby making them a more effective change agent for the whole family not just the substance mis-user. To enhance the CSO’s ability to implement new techniques and disengage from harmful patterns, CRAFT also teaches communication skills and how to better solve-problems. Most importantly, we teach clients engagement techniques that have been shown to result in a higher rate of treatment enrollment by substance abusers than the more traditional methods. Although from the CSO’s perspective, giving up a problematic drug is a good thing, for the user it can be a hugely sad thing. The CSO is sensitized to the emotionally loaded place the substance occupies in the user’s life and the importance of helping him or her to develop other means of filling that time and space. Continued on page 30


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Things all CSOs must know. 1. Your love has power: Research has shown that family members can successfully learn techniques to engage their substance-abusing loved ones into treatment. 2. You are not alone. As isolated as you may feel as you cope with your loved one’s substance abuse, the fact is that you are not alone. Millions of families are at this very moment suffering from problems just like yours. Although knowing that others suffer certainly doesn’t lessen your pain, you may take hope from knowing that many have “solved” their problems and learned to live more satisfying lives. 3. You can catch more flies with honey than vinegar: Research has shown that it is easier to get your loved one to listen to loving words than to criticism. So choose ways to discuss about what you do like about him or her and what positive changes please you. 4. You have as many tries as you want: Relationships are a process; they exist over time. One event or discussion rarely defines an entire relationship, so you have as many tries at improving your relationship as you wish to take. CRAFT is designed to move at the pace you choose. 5. You can live a happier life whether or not your loved one becomes abstinent: An important part of CRAFT is learning to take care of yourself, regardless of your loved one’s behavior. Get Your Loved One Sober: Alternatives to Nagging, Pleading, and Threatening (Meyers & Wolfe, 2004) teaches you how to do that and feel good about it.

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Needless to say, things do not change immediately just because the CSO has a new set of strategies. It typically takes multiple attempts using their new skills before even the CSO can reliably not slip into the old arguments, but each attempt provides data for behavioral mapping and the CSO develops an increasingly refined strategy and skill set. Remember CRAFT engages an average of 70% of their loved ones into treatment. In the end, even if the substance abuser does not make important changes, the CSO has the peace of mind of knowing she or he has exerted a best effort and any critical decisions about the relationship can now be made with a clear conscience. Needless to say, things do not change immediately just because the CSO has a new set of strategies. It typically takes multiple attempts to follow the new maps before even the CSO can reliably not slip into the old arguments, but each attempt provides data for behavioral mapping and the CSO develops an increasingly refined strategy and skill set. In the end, even if the substance abuser does not make important changes, the CSO has the peace of mind of knowing she or he has exerted a best effort and any critical decisions about the relationship can now be made with a clear conscience. For further information on CRAFT contact the authors listed below. Robert J. Meyers, Ph.D. Associate Emeritus Professor of Psychology, University of New Mexico & Director of Robert J. Meyers Ph.D., & Associates www.robertjmeyersphd.com Brian Serna MA LPCC LADAC, Trainer and Consultant RJM & Associate www.robertjmeyersphd.com

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