What Really Matters

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What  Really  Matters    

 

What Really Matters Dr. Brandon Park | June 14, 2015

         The  Book  of  Jonah  is  truly  all  about  "The  God  of  Second  Chances."  What's  interesting  though  is  that   this  book  does  not  end  like  one  would  assume  it  would.  We  prefer  our  stories  to  have  a  happy  ending,   but  the  conclusion  of  this  book  reveals  that  Jonah  was  anything  but  happy!  Just  to  review  –  God  had   called  Jonah  to  go  to  the  great  pagan  city  called  Nineveh.  Jonah  refused,  and  as  a  result  he  ended  up   in  the  belly  of  a  fish.  In  chapter  3,  Jonah  was  obedient  and  proclaimed  to  the  nation  of  Nineveh  that   within  40  days  they  would  be  overturned  because  of  the  evil  and  sin  in  that  c ity.  However,  the   unexpected  happened  and  roughly  half  a  million  people  came  to  faith  in  God  and  repentance.  It  was   the  greatest  revival  in  all  of  human  history.              You  could  sum  up  the  entire  Book  of  Jonah  with  one  statement:  What  really  matters  to  God  is   ___________________.    Until  you  see  God  for  who  God  really  is  –  and  then  you  start  seeing  people   for  who  they  really  are  –  you  will  never  understand  what  really  matters.  If  you  understand  what  really   matters…      

1.  We  should  be  _____________  over  a  God  who  _____________.  

         We  ought  to  get  up  every  morning  pumped  and  excited  that  there  is  the  Creator  of  this  Universe   who  actually  loves  us.              Jonah  4:1,  "But  Jonah  was  greatly  displeased  and  he  became  angry."              WORD  STUDY:  "greatly  displeased"  =  Hebrew  word  ra'ah  and  it  is  a  synonym  for  evil.  "Evil"  =   Hebrew  word  harah,  which  means  "to  burn  with  fire."              What  was  he  so  angry  about?  Because  of  what  happened  in  the  last  verse  of  chapter  3.  Nineveh   had  repented  and  God  showed  mercy  on  them.  It's  easy  for  us  to  think  that  Jonah  was  being  mean-­‐ spirited.  However,  if  we  had  to  honestly  evaluate  ourselves,  you  have  to  ask:  Have  you  ever  at  any   time  in  your  life  been  angry  or  jealous  or  frustrated  over  something  good  that  happened  to  somebody   else?  Especially  somebody  you  don't  care  for?              Remember  that  the  Ninevites  were  the  archenemies  of  the  Jews/Israel.  They  were  ridiculously  evil   and  malicious  in  what  they  did  to  humanity,  and  Israel  lived  in  constant  fear  of  their  threat.  That  was   one  of  the  reasons  why  Jonah  fled.  He  became  a  fugitive  not  just  because  he  feared  what  the   Ninevites  would  do  to  him,  but  he  also  knew  the  character  of  God,  and  Jonah  knew  God  would  relent   his  judgment  upon  them  if  they  repented.              Jonah,  in  essence,  was  saying,  "God  thank  you  for  forgiving  me,  but  I  will  never  be  able  to  forgive   the  Ninevites."  Maybe  you  are  angry  and  you  have  been  harboring  hurt,  bitterness,  and  resentment   toward  someone.  Resentment,  if  it  is  not  dealt  with,  will  build  a  house  of  unforgiveness  down  the   road.              When  Jesus  was  hanging  on  the  cross,  He  had  been  abandoned,  abused,  and  slandered.  What  was   His  response?  While  hanging  on  the  c ross,  He  looked  them  in  the  eye  and  said,  "Father,  forgive  them   for  they  know  not  what  they  do."              In  reality,  Jonah  was  a  __________________  ________________.    Spiritual  racism  is  alive  and  well   in  the  c hurch  today.              Vs.  2,  "He  prayed  to  the  Lord,  ‘Oh  Lord,  is  this  not  what  I  said  when  I  was  still  at  home.  That's  why  I   was  so  quick  to  flee  to  Tarshish.  I  knew  that  you  were  a  gracious  and  compassionate  God,  slow  to   anger,  abounding  in  love,  a  God  who  relents  from  sending  calamity.’"              The  Book  of  Jonah  is  really  summed  up  in  that  verse.  If  you  give  God  a  choice,  He  will  always  choose   mercy  over  wrath,  and  He  will  always  choose  forgiveness  over  judgment;  He  will  always  c hoose  grace   over  punishment.  Why  does  He  do  that?  Because  God  is  a  God  who  loves  everybody,  even  people  like   the  Ninevites.                And  the  more  you  understand  the  love  of  God  and  the  more  you're  filled  with  the  love  of  God,  the   more  you  start  loving  people  who  don't  know  God.                The  reason  Jonah  was  still  alive  in  the  fourth  chapter  was  because  of  the  grace  of  God  in  the   second  chapter.  The  same  thing  he  wanted  to  deny  to  the  Ninevites  was  the  same  thing  that  God  had  given   him.  When  you  stop  being  joyful  over  a  God  who  loves  everybody,  you  become  a  spiritual  racist.     *The  most  _________________  people  on  this  planet  are  those  who  don't  care  whether  anybody  else  goes  to   ___________________  or  not  as  long  as  they  get  there  themselves.        

It’s  also  worth  noting  that  this  is  only  the  second  time  Jonah  is  recorded  as  “praying”  to  God.    The  first  time,  he  prays  in  the   belly  of  the  whale;  the  second  time  he  prays  is  when  he  is  angry.    Is  that  a  mirror  to  your  own  life?    Do  you  tend  to  pray  only when  tragedy  strikes  or  when  you’re  hurting  and  when  trials  come  your  way?    The  reality  is,  a  relationship  with  Christ  is  so   much  more.    Don’t  settle  for  a  _______________-­‐___________________  relationship  with  God.    He’s  come  to  give  you  life   and  to  give  it  more  abundantly  (John  10:10).     That  was  Jonah's  attitude.  He  has  a  pity  party  in  vs.  3,  "‘Now  oh  Lord,  take  away  my  life  for  it  is  better  for  me  to   die  than  to  live.'  But  the  Lord  replied,  'Have  you  any  right  to  be  angry?’"     If  you  truly  understand  what  really  matters…    

2.    We  will  be  _______________  over  a  God  who  ___________.

Vs.  5,  "Jonah  went  out  and  sat  down  at  a  place  east  of  the  city.  There  he  made  himself  a  shelter  and  sat  in  its   shade  and  waited  to  see  what  would  happen  to  the  city."     Jonah  was  secretly  hoping  Nineveh  would  backslide  and  be  judged  by  God.  He  wanted  God  to  wipe  them  off   the  face  of  the  earth!     Vs.  6,  "Then  the  LORD  God  provided  a  vine  and  made  it  grow  up  over  Jonah  to  give  shade  for  his  head  to  ease  his   discomfort,  and  Jonah  was  very  happy  about  the  vine."     This  is  the  first  time  you  see  Jonah  happy.  Nineveh  is  in  modern  day  Iraq,  so  it  was  extremely  hot.  God  once   again  gives  something  Jonah  did  not  deserve.  He  gives  him  shade.     What  made  Jonah  happy  was  not  the  Giver  of  the  gift;  it  was  the  gift.  He  was  more  grateful  for  the  plant   than  he  was  for  the  Provider.  So  look  what  God  does…       Vs.  7-­‐10,  "But  at  dawn  the  next  day  God  provided  a  worm,  which  chewed  the  vine  so  that  it  withered.     When  the  sun  rose,  God  provided  a  scorching  east  wind,  and  the  sun  blazed  on  Jonah's  head  so  that  he  grew  faint.   He  wanted  to  die,  and  said,  ‘It  would  be  better  for  me  to  die  than  to  live.’              But  God  said  to  Jonah,  ‘Do  you  have  a  right  to  be  angry  about  the  vine?’          ‘I  do,’  he  said.  ‘I  am  angry  enough  to  die.’            But  the  LORD  said,  ‘You  have  been  concerned  about  this  vine,  though  you  did  not  tend  it  or  make  it  grow.     It  sprang  up  overnight  and  died  overnight.’”       If  you  want  to  know  what  a  person  is  really  like,  ask  them  3  questions:     1.)  What  makes  you _________________?         2.)  What  makes  you  _________________?     3.)  What  makes  you  ___________?       Here  was  Jonah  who  was  more  concerned  about  a  plant  than  he  was  about  people.  And  we  ought  to  be  grateful  for   a  God  who  gives  us  love,  and  grace,  and  mercy  –  even  when  we  don't  deserve  it.  And  we  ought  to  be  grateful  that   God  uses  us  to  give  that  same  love,  grace,  and  mercy  to  others,  and  we  will  do  exactly  that  if  we  understand  what   really  matters!     If  we  truly  understand  what  really  matters...      

3.  We  should  be  ____________  of  a  God  who  _________  .  

Vs.  11,  "But  Nineveh  has  more  than  a  hundred  and  twenty  thousand  people  who  cannot  tell  their  right  hand   from  their  left,  and  many  cattle  as  well.  Should  I  not  be  concerned  about  that  great  city?"     Jonah  never  answers  his  question  because  he  already  knows  the  answer.     What  God  said  in  effect  to  Jonah  was  this:  "Jonah,  you  are  so  concerned  that  the  people  of  Nineveh  are  not  getting   what  they  deserved,  but  you  have  forgotten  something  Jonah:  You  did  not  get  what  you  deserved!"       The  difference  between  Christianity  and  the  rest  of  the  world  religions  is  simple:  ___________  _____________     ___________________!     Nineveh  did  not  get  what  they  deserved,  but  God  doesn't  want  anyone  to  get  what  they  deserve.     2  Peter  3:9,  "The  Lord  is  not  slow  in  keeping  his  promise  as  some  understand  slowness.  He  is  patient  with  you  not     wanting  anyone  to  perish  but  everyone  to  come  to  repentance."     1  Timothy  2:3-­‐4,  "This  is  good  and  pleases  God  our  Savior  who  wants  all  men  to  be  saved  and  come  to  a   knowledge  of  the  truth!"       What  is  the  real  measure  of  true  spirituality?  A  simple  test:  How  much  of  what  _______________   ____________  ___________________  ____________?        

   

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What  Really  Matters    

 

What Really Matters Dr. Brandon Park | June 14, 2015

         The  Book  of  Jonah  is  truly  all  about  "The  God  of  Second  Chances."  What's  interesting  though  is  that   this  book  does  not  end  like  one  would  assume  it  would.  We  prefer  our  stories  to  have  a  happy  ending,   but  the  conclusion  of  this  book  reveals  that  Jonah  was  anything  but  happy!  Just  to  review  –  God  had   called  Jonah  to  go  to  the  great  pagan  city  called  Nineveh.  Jonah  refused,  and  as  a  result  he  ended  up   in  the  belly  of  a  fish.  In  chapter  3,  Jonah  was  obedient  and  proclaimed  to  the  nation  of  Nineveh  that   within  40  days  they  would  be  overturned  because  of  the  evil  and  sin  in  that  c ity.  However,  the   unexpected  happened  and  roughly  half  a  million  people  came  to  faith  in  God  and  repentance.  It  was   the  greatest  revival  in  all  of  human  history.              You  could  sum  up  the  entire  Book  of  Jonah  with  one  statement:  What  really  matters  to  God  is   people ___________________.    Until  you  see  God  for  who  God  really  is  –  and  then  you  start  seeing  people   for  who  they  really  are  –  you  will  never  understand  what  really  matters.  If  you  understand  what  really   matters…      

1.  We  should  be  _____________   over  a  God  who  _____________.   joyful loves

         We  ought  to  get  up  every  morning  pumped  and  excited  that  there  is  the  Creator  of  this  Universe   who  actually  loves  us.              Jonah  4:1,  "But  Jonah  was  greatly  displeased  and  he  became  angry."              WORD  STUDY:  "greatly  displeased"  =  Hebrew  word  ra'ah  and  it  is  a  synonym  for  evil.  "Evil"  =   Hebrew  word  harah,  which  means  "to  burn  with  fire."              What  was  he  so  angry  about?  Because  of  what  happened  in  the  last  verse  of  chapter  3.  Nineveh   had  repented  and  God  showed  mercy  on  them.  It's  easy  for  us  to  think  that  Jonah  was  being  mean-­‐ spirited.  However,  if  we  had  to  honestly  evaluate  ourselves,  you  have  to  ask:  Have  you  ever  at  any   time  in  your  life  been  angry  or  jealous  or  frustrated  over  something  good  that  happened  to  somebody   else?  Especially  somebody  you  don't  care  for?              Remember  that  the  Ninevites  were  the  archenemies  of  the  Jews/Israel.  They  were  ridiculously  evil   and  malicious  in  what  they  did  to  humanity,  and  Israel  lived  in  constant  fear  of  their  threat.  That  was   one  of  the  reasons  why  Jonah  fled.  He  became  a  fugitive  not  just  because  he  feared  what  the   Ninevites  would  do  to  him,  but  he  also  knew  the  character  of  God,  and  Jonah  knew  God  would  relent   his  judgment  upon  them  if  they  repented.              Jonah,  in  essence,  was  saying,  "God  thank  you  for  forgiving  me,  but  I  will  never  be  able  to  forgive   the  Ninevites."  Maybe  you  are  angry  and  you  have  been  harboring  hurt,  bitterness,  and  resentment   toward  someone.  Resentment,  if  it  is  not  dealt  with,  will  build  a  house  of  unforgiveness  down  the   road.              When  Jesus  was  hanging  on  the  cross,  He  had  been  abandoned,  abused,  and  slandered.  What  was   His  response?  While  hanging  on  the  c ross,  He  looked  them  in  the  eye  and  said,  "Father,  forgive  them   for  they  know  not  what  they  do."     spiritual racist          In  reality,  Jonah  was  a  __________________   ________________.    Spiritual  racism  is  alive  and  well   in  the  c hurch  today.              Vs.  2,  "He  prayed  to  the  Lord,  ‘Oh  Lord,  is  this  not  what  I  said  when  I  was  still  at  home.  That's  why  I   was  so  quick  to  flee  to  Tarshish.  I  knew  that  you  were  a  gracious  and  compassionate  God,  slow  to   anger,  abounding  in  love,  a  God  who  relents  from  sending  calamity.’"              The  Book  of  Jonah  is  really  summed  up  in  that  verse.  If  you  give  God  a  choice,  He  will  always  choose   mercy  over  wrath,  and  He  will  always  choose  forgiveness  over  judgment;  He  will  always  c hoose  grace   over  punishment.  Why  does  He  do  that?  Because  God  is  a  God  who  loves  everybody,  even  people  like   the  Ninevites.                And  the  more  you  understand  the  love  of  God  and  the  more  you're  filled  with  the  love  of  God,  the   more  you  start  loving  people  who  don't  know  God.                The  reason  Jonah  was  still  alive  in  the  fourth  chapter  was  because  of  the  grace  of  God  in  the   second  chapter.  The  same  thing  he  wanted  to  deny  to  the  Ninevites  was  the  same  thing  that  God  had  given   him.  When  you  stop  being  joyful  over  a  God  who  loves  everybody,  you  become  a  spiritual  racist.     selfish *The  most  _________________   people  on  this  planet  are  those  who  don't  care  whether  anybody  else  goes  to   Heaven ___________________   or  not  as  long  as  they  get  there  themselves.        

It’s  also  worth  noting  that  this  is  only  the  second  time  Jonah  is  recorded  as  “praying”  to  God.    The  first  time,  he  prays  in  the   belly  of  the  whale;  the  second  time  he  prays  is  when  he  is  angry.    Is  that  a  mirror  to  your  own  life?    Do  you  tend  to  pray  only when  tragedy  strikes  or  when  you’re  hurting  and  when  trials  come  your  way?    The  reality  is,  a  relationship  with  Christ  is  so   crisis driven much  more.    Don’t  settle  for  a  _______________-­‐ ___________________   relationship  with  God.    He’s  come  to  give  you  life   and  to  give  it  more  abundantly  (John  10:10).     That  was  Jonah's  attitude.  He  has  a  pity  party  in  vs.  3,  "‘Now  oh  Lord,  take  away  my  life  for  it  is  better  for  me  to   die  than  to  live.'  But  the  Lord  replied,  'Have  you  any  right  to  be  angry?’"     If  you  truly  understand  what  really  matters…    

grateful gives 2.    We  will  be  _______________   over  a  God  who  ___________.

Vs.  5,  "Jonah  went  out  and  sat  down  at  a  place  east  of  the  city.  There  he  made  himself  a  shelter  and  sat  in  its   shade  and  waited  to  see  what  would  happen  to  the  city."     Jonah  was  secretly  hoping  Nineveh  would  backslide  and  be  judged  by  God.  He  wanted  God  to  wipe  them  off   the  face  of  the  earth!     Vs.  6,  "Then  the  LORD  God  provided  a  vine  and  made  it  grow  up  over  Jonah  to  give  shade  for  his  head  to  ease  his   discomfort,  and  Jonah  was  very  happy  about  the  vine."     This  is  the  first  time  you  see  Jonah  happy.  Nineveh  is  in  modern  day  Iraq,  so  it  was  extremely  hot.  God  once   again  gives  something  Jonah  did  not  deserve.  He  gives  him  shade.     What  made  Jonah  happy  was  not  the  Giver  of  the  gift;  it  was  the  gift.  He  was  more  grateful  for  the  plant   than  he  was  for  the  Provider.  So  look  what  God  does…       Vs.  7-­‐10,  "But  at  dawn  the  next  day  God  provided  a  worm,  which  chewed  the  vine  so  that  it  withered.     When  the  sun  rose,  God  provided  a  scorching  east  wind,  and  the  sun  blazed  on  Jonah's  head  so  that  he  grew  faint.   He  wanted  to  die,  and  said,  ‘It  would  be  better  for  me  to  die  than  to  live.’              But  God  said  to  Jonah,  ‘Do  you  have  a  right  to  be  angry  about  the  vine?’          ‘I  do,’  he  said.  ‘I  am  angry  enough  to  die.’            But  the  LORD  said,  ‘You  have  been  concerned  about  this  vine,  though  you  did  not  tend  it  or  make  it  grow.     It  sprang  up  overnight  and  died  overnight.’”       If  you  want  to  know  what  a  person  is  really  like,  ask  them  3  questions:     laugh 1.)  What  makes  you _________________?         angry 2.)  What  makes  you  _________________?     weep   3.)  What  makes  you  ___________?     Here  was  Jonah  who  was  more  concerned  about  a  plant  than  he  was  about  people.  And  we  ought  to  be  grateful  for   a  God  who  gives  us  love,  and  grace,  and  mercy  –  even  when  we  don't  deserve  it.  And  we  ought  to  be  grateful  that   God  uses  us  to  give  that  same  love,  grace,  and  mercy  to  others,  and  we  will  do  exactly  that  if  we  understand  what   really  matters!     If  we  truly  understand  what  really  matters...      

mindful saves .   3.  We  should  be  ____________   of  a  God  who  _________  

Vs.  11,  "But  Nineveh  has  more  than  a  hundred  and  twenty  thousand  people  who  cannot  tell  their  right  hand   from  their  left,  and  many  cattle  as  well.  Should  I  not  be  concerned  about  that  great  city?"     Jonah  never  answers  his  question  because  he  already  knows  the  answer.     What  God  said  in  effect  to  Jonah  was  this:  "Jonah,  you  are  so  concerned  that  the  people  of  Nineveh  are  not  getting   what  they  deserved,  but  you  have  forgotten  something  Jonah:  You  did  not  get  what  you  deserved!"       Our _____________   God The  difference  between  Christianity  and  the  rest  of  the  world  religions  is  simple:  ___________     saves ___________________!     Nineveh  did  not  get  what  they  deserved,  but  God  doesn't  want  anyone  to  get  what  they  deserve.     2  Peter  3:9,  "The  Lord  is  not  slow  in  keeping  his  promise  as  some  understand  slowness.  He  is  patient  with  you  not     wanting  anyone  to  perish  but  everyone  to  come  to  repentance."     1  Timothy  2:3-­‐4,  "This  is  good  and  pleases  God  our  Savior  who  wants  all  men  to  be  saved  and  come  to  a   knowledge  of  the  truth!"       concerns What  is  the  real  measure  of  true  spirituality?  A  simple  test:  How  much  of  what  _______________   ____________     God ___________________   concerns ____________?   me