Won't. Chart - Catherine Coaches

Instructions This is your general guide to using a WWWChart effectively! Step 1: Gather your materials! You’ll need: • • •

Paper • A Black Sharpie • Highlighters or Light Markers (Optional) A Printer • A Pencil Print out the WWWChart of your choice! I recommend printing them out on scratch paper (holler at being eco-friendly).

Step 2: Prep Your Brain to Think About Sex •

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If You’re Filling This Out for Yourself o As you go through each list, you can think about what activities you’re down for in an overall sense. Doing a WWWChart is a great way to get clear on your own desires AND might make for excellent spank bank deposits (in other words, masturbation fantasies). If You’re Filling This Out With A Partner o As you go through the list, have your current partner in mind when you fill this out. This will be a great way for the two of you to get real clear on allllll the sexy things you can do together! So remember: be honest! Part of having great sex (and being in a great partnership, for that matter) is being willing to accept our desires and ask for them!

Step 3: Get to Know the WWWChart • • 1. 2. 3.

Each chart has its own specific focus, so make sure you read the heading before you begin. Some charts have two different levels of analysis: Activity Want! Will… Won’t. Items In Bold Are The General Activity Items below may be suggestions for body location where the activity can happen. Items below may also be suggestions for how to accomplish the activity above.

Step 4: Fill Out The WWWChart •

As you fill out the chart, you can think about the Want, Will and Won’t as follows: Want! Will… Won’t. “Yes! Yes! Yes! I sooooo want to “I could be convinced to do this.” “Hell to the no. Not ever.” do this. Sounds incredibly hot! I OR “I wouldn’t mind doing this.” definitely need to make this OR “I would do this if my partner happen.” wants to.”

© 2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

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You may have already noticed that there are a LOT of items on these charts. I recommend you tackle filling out the charts at a pace that is comfortable for you. You can take this chart section-by-section, page-by-page, or you can just marathon your way through it. If at any point you’re feeling overwhelmed it is A-OK to put the pencil down and hop back in at any time.

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Either before OR during the filling-out process, you can take the black sharpie and cross out any fields that don’t apply to you or to your partner. • For example, if I were filling out a Beneficiary of Bliss WWWChart, it might look something like this: 1. Being Kissed 2. On Anus 3. On Breasts 4. On Penis 5. On Testicles 6. On Vulva • (I don’t have a penis or testicles, so I can’t be kissed on them. Hence crossing them off my chart.) •

Pay attention to your response to the bolded activities. If you say “Won’t.” to an entire category of activity, then you don’t have to fill out the suggestions that follow. You can just skip to the next bold item.

Step 5: Do Some Data Processing • •

If you prepped with markers or highlighters, bust ‘em out! If you are flying solo: o Go through your lists and highlight your Wants! in one color, your Wills… in another, and you’re welcome to either cross out your Wont’s. OR highlight your Wont’s in another color. Being Kissed Want! Will… Won’t. On Anus x On Breasts x On Vulva x

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If you are doing this with a partner: o Match your Purveyor of Pleasure (PoP) WWWChart with your partner’s Beneficiary of Bliss (BoB) WWWChart and vice versa. The numbers are in alignment! o At the top of one Purveyor of Pleasure list, indicate who the PoP is and who is the BoB. o Go through the lists and transfer the marks from the BoB Chart onto the PoP Chart. o Grab a different color for each of the following possible outcomes: Activities you both Want!, activities you both Won’t. do, and Activities you need to talk about! Being Kissed Want! Will… Won’t On Anus XX On Breasts XX On Penis XX On Testicles X X On Vulva X X On Mouth X X o Grab your other Purveyor of Pleasure Sheet, mark names at the top, and repeat!

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Step 6: Analyze Your Data •

If you are fabulously single! o You just made yourself an easy to understand desire chart!

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If you are rockin’ it in relationship town. o Two X’s in your Want! column means that y’all are in agreement! These are your shared desires and things that you’re totally good to do! o Two X’s is your Won’t. column means that y’all are in agreement! You can totally never talk about these activities again, as you know that you’re both okay with never doing them. o Any other combination of X’s means that you have a little more work to do because:  You’re both willing to do something, but not psyched about a particular activity (Two X’s in the Will…. Column)  One of you really wants something, and the other person isn’t as excited. (One X in the Want! Column; One X in the Will…. Column).  One of you really wants something, and the other person is like, “Uh uh, no way.” (One X in the Want! Column; One X in the Won’t column).  One of you is willing to do something, and the other person is like “No. Absolutely not.” (One X in the Will… column; One X in the Won’t Column.)

Step 7: Take Action •

Single! o Here are three fun suggestions for use of your Want!Will…Won’tChart results: 1. Examine your preferences and start to think about why you’ve placed X’s where you have. Doing this activity can help you to articulate to future partners why it is that you just really really really Want! something, or why you absolutely Won’t. do something. 2. Make a Want!Will…Won’t poster. Show to potential sex partners for screening purposes. 3. Use your Want! list to write some hot erotica. 4. Two words: Drinking Game.

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Not Single! o Here are four suggestions for use of your Want!Will…Won’tChart results: 1. Take all of your mutual Wants! and write them on a sheet of paper (or put them in a word document, or make a check-list using an app on your smartphone). Make sure each person gets a copy. Start doing those activities! 2. Give each partner the list where they have been identified as the Purveyor of Pleasure. Seperately, study the list and choose 1 or 2 things you’ll try out on your partner the next time you have some great sex! 3. With anything that you don’t agree on, start to chat about how you can move activities to either the “Let’s do this” end of things or the “Let’s not do this” end of things. (Note: This is another time when you may want to tackle things slowly.) 4. Get a twister spinner. Put some mutual Wants! over the dots. Let that spinner fly! Sex it up!


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The WWWCharts do not have every single activity that a human could do sexually. If there’s something that you didn’t find on a chart that you think should be on there … e-mail Becca @ SmartHotFun.Com. (Please note that more WWWCharts are also on the way!!)

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This activity is designed to help you clarify your desires, which is great! However, realize that in doing this you may learn that you have desires or your partner has desires that are surprising to you. Because some serious revelations may happen during this activity, I recommend you go in there with a compassionate attitude.

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When filling this out with a partner, I recommend doing the initial phases alone. Filling out the WWWChart by yourself gives you: A. The freedom to fill out the chart and think about things at your own pace. B. Greater ability for honesty because there isn’t anyone all up in your face waiting for answers. C. The ability to have whatever reactions you need to have privately before sharing.  Because you may not know how your partner feels about some of these activities, dancing with joy when your partner is grossed out OR making a gagging noise when your partner is turned on by something may not help with the communication about that activity. Being able to have your reaction alone can often help you to rock some sort of poker face when you’re sharing. This can be a huge boon to constructive communication.

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If you’re not up for talking about what you want to do sexually, you’re probably not ready for the partnered WWWChart activity. It may be a good idea for you to do this on your own so that you can work your way up to talking about this with someone else.

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The WWWChart activity is not a one-time thing! Sexual tastes change throughout life because of physical aging, partner changes, experience, and many other reasons. Revisiting your WWWChart is a great idea!

Have Fun! Seriously. Although doing this process takes some time/work/energy, the trade-off is starting an epic journey toward consistently great sex! Are you a programmer looking to get into web-app/phone-app development? Maybe you’re looking to start or change your career? Please contact [email protected]! She wants to chat you up.


Beneficiary of Bliss This chart is going to help you clarify the sexy things you want/will let a partner do to you during sex play! When you’re filling out this chart, think about whether the activity listed is something you want someone to do you, something you will let someone do to you, or something you just won’t do. This WWWChart is designed to be used with the Purveyor of Pleasure WWWChart. Click here to get it! For directions on how to use a WWWChart, Click Here!

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Activity Having A Partner Anally Valprehend Your Penis Your Tongue Your Fingers Your Toes Watching Your Partner Have Sex With Another Person Masturbate Give A Strip-Tease Undress Massage/Touch Themselves Finger Themselves Pose Being Bitten/Nibbled Abdomen Backs Breasts Butt Cheeks Clitoris Ears Labia Inner Thighs Necks Nipples Penis Skin Testicles Toes Having Your Blood Let With Blades With Fingernails With Needles With Teeth

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Activity Being Blown/Breathed On In Ear In Mouth On Abdomen On Anus On Back On Breasts On Butt Cheeks On Fingers On Inner Thighs On Neck On Nipples On Penis On Scalp On Skin On Testicles On Toes On Vulva Bondage Having Your Ankles Bound Having Your Wrists Bound Being Blindfolded Being Constricted Being Gagged Being Pinned Having Your Arms Pinned Above Your Head Being Tied Up In Ropes Being Suspended Getting Choked Having Your Gratification Delayed Submitting Allowing your partner to be “in charge” Participating in a scene your partner created Taking Orders Playing A Submissive “Character” Being Double Penetrated Penis in Your Anus, Fingers in Your Vagina Penis in Your Anus, Sex Toy in Your Vagina Penis in Your Vagina, Sex Toy in Your Anus Penis your Vagina, Fingers in Your Anus Toys in Your Anus and Vagina Having A Partner Eat/Ingest Anal Secretions Breast Milk

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Feces Female Ejaculate Flavored Lubricants Food Menstrual Fluid Saliva Semen Sweat Urine Vaginal Fluids Vomit Having A Partner Ejaculate In your Mouth In your Vagina In your Anus On your Back On your Chest On your Face On your Neck On your Penis On your Vulva On your Abdomen On your Butt Cheeks On your Skin Erotica Having a Partner Write Erotica For You Listening To A Partner Read Aloud Having “X” Expelled Onto You X = Feces X = Urine X = Vomit Being Fed Being Fisted In Your Vagina In Your Anus/Rectum Being Flicked Ear Lobes Nipples Penis Perineum Testicles Vulva Being Flogged Back


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Butt Cheeks Calves Thighs Grooming Own Hair Abdomen Anal Areola Armpit Back Butt Cheek Chest Facial Mons Pubis Perineum Scrotum Vulva Having Hair Groomed By A Partner Abdomen Anal Areola Armpit Back Butt Cheek Chest Facial Mons Pubis Perineum Scrotum Vulva Being Groped/Cupped Breasts Butt Cheeks Calves Inner Thighs Scalp Testicles Vulva Having Fingers Inserted Into Your Mouth Into Your Rectum Into Your Vagina Into Your Anus Having A Penis Inserted In your Armpit


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Activity In between Your Breasts In between Your Butt Cheeks In between Your Labia (No Penetration) In between Your Skin Folds In between Your Thighs Into Your Mouth Into Your Vagina Into Your Anus/Rectum Having Toes Inserted Into your Mouth Into your Vagina Into your Anus/Rectum Having A Tongue Inserted Into your Mouth Into your Vagina Into your Anus/Rectum Being Kissed Abdomen Anus Back Breasts Butt Cheeks Ears Face Fingers Inner Thighs Mouth Neck Nipples Penis Perineum Scalp Skin Testicles Toes Vulva Receiving A Lap Dance Naked Through Clothes Being Licked Abdomen Anus Back Breasts

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Butt Cheeks Ears Face Fingers Inner Thighs Mouth Neck Nipples Penis Perineum Scalp Skin Testicles Toes Vulva Massaging With Feet/Toes Abdomen Anus Back Breasts Butt Cheeks Ears Face Fingers Inner Thighs Mouth Neck Nipples Penis Perineum Scalp Skin Testicles Toes Vulva Being Massaged With Hands/Fingers Abdomen Anus Back Breasts Butt Cheeks Ears Face Fingers


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G-Spot Inner Thighs Mouth Neck Nipples Penis Perineum Prostate (P-Spot) Scalp Skin Testicles Toes Vagina Vulva Using Massage Oils Using Lotion Using Lube Being Pinched Abdomen Back Breasts Butt Cheeks Ears Face Fingers Inner Thighs Mouth Neck Nipples Penis Skin Testicles Toes Vulva Being Scratched Abdomen Back Breasts Butt Cheeks Ears Face Fingers Inner Thighs Mouth


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Neck Nipples Penis Skin Testicles Toes Vulva Side By Side Masturbation Simultaneous Genital Massage Simultaneous Oral Play (69, Dudes!) Being Slapped Abdomen Back Breasts Butt Cheeks Ears Face Fingers Inner Thighs Mouth Neck Nipples Penis Skin Testicles Toes Vulva Being Smelled Anus Armpits Breath Farts Neck Perineum Testicles Vulva Being Spit On In Your Mouth On Your Face On Your Penis On Your Vulva On Your Anus On Your Breasts On Your Skin


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On Your Testicles Dominating Giving Orders Playing a “Dominant” Character Taking Charge Having A Partner Suck Your Clitoris Your Penis Your Vulva Your Anus Your Ears Your Fingers Your Lips Your Neck Your Nipples Your Skin Your Testicles Your Toes Your Tongue Listening to Dirty Talk Temperature Play In Your Vagina In Your Rectum In Your Anus On Your Penis On Your Vulva On Your Anus On Your Skin Being Tickled Abdomen Armpits Back Breasts Butt Cheeks Ears Face Fingers Inner Thighs Mouth Neck Penis Scalp Skin Testicles


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Toes Vulva Being Tugged Clitoris Ear Lobes Hair Labia Nipples Penis Testicles Having A Partner Vaginally Valprehend Your Penis Your Tongue Your Fingers Your Toes Being Watched Fingering Yourself Having Sex With Someone Else Masturbating Performing a Strip-Tease Posing Touch/Massage Yourself Undressing


Purveyor of Pleasure This WWWChart is to help you think about the things you want to do to/for someone you’re sexing up! When you’re filling out this chart, think about whether the activity listed is something you want to do someone, something you will do for someone, or something you just won’t do. This WWWChart is designed to be used with the Beneficiary of Bliss WWWChart. Click here to get it! For directions on how to use a WWWChart, Click Here! 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20. 21. 22. 23. 24. 25. 26. 27. 28. 29. 30. 31. 32. 33.

Activity Anally Valprehend A Penis A Tongue Fingers Toes Being Watched Having Sex With Another Person Masturbating Strip-Tease Undressing Massaging/Touching Yourself Fingering Yourself Posing Biting/Nibbling Abdomen Backs Breasts Butt Cheeks Clitoris Ears Labia Inner Thighs Necks Nipples Penis Skin Testicles Toes Bloodletting With Blades With Fingernails With Needles With Teeth

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Activity Blowing/Breathing In Ear In Mouth On Abdomen On Anus On Back On Breasts On Butt Cheeks On Fingers On Inner Thighs On Neck On Nipples On Penis On Scalp On Skin On Testicles On Toes On Vulva Bondage Binding a Partner’s Ankles Binding a Partner’s Wrists Blindfolding a Partner Constricting a Partner Gagging a Partner Pinning a Partner Pinning Arms Above a Partner’s Head Tying A Partner Up With Rope Suspending a Partner Choking Delaying Gratification Dominating Being “In Charge” Creating a Scene Giving Orders Playing A Dominant “Character” Double Penetration Penis in Anus, Fingers in Vagina Penis in Anus, Sex Toy In Vagina Penis in Vagina, Fingers in Anus Penis in Vagina, Sex Toy in Anus Toys in Both Anus and Vagina Eating/Ingesting Anal Secretions Breast Milk

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Feces Female Ejaculate Flavored Lubricants Food Menstrual Fluid Saliva Semen Sweat Urine Vaginal Fluids Vomit Ejaculating In a Mouth In a Vagina In an Anus On a Back On a Chest On a Face On a Neck On a Penis On a Vulva On an Abdomen On Butt Cheeks On Skin Erotica Writing For A Partner Reading To A Partner Expelling “X” Onto A Partner X = Feces X = Urine X = Vomit Feeding Someone Fisting A Vagina An Anus/Rectum Flicking Ear Lobes Nipples Penis Perineum Testicles Vulva Flogging Back


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Butt Cheeks Calves Thighs Grooming Own Hair Abdomen Anal Areola Armpit Back Butt Cheek Chest Facial Mons Pubis Perineum Scrotum Vulva Grooming Partner’s Hair Abdomen Anal Areola Armpit Back Butt Cheek Chest Facial Mons Pubis Perineum Scrotum Vulva Groping/Cupping Breasts Butt Cheeks Calves Inner Thighs Scalp Testicles Vulva Inserting Fingers Into a Mouth Into a Rectum Into a Vagina Into an Anus Inserting Penis In an Armpit


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Activity In between Breasts In between Butt Cheeks In between Labia (No Penetration) In between Skin Folds In between Thighs Into a Mouth Into a Vagina Into an Anus/Rectum Inserting Toes Into a Mouth Into a Vagina Into an Anus/Rectum Inserting Your Tongue Into a Mouth Into a Vagina Into an Anus/Rectum Kissing Abdomen Anus Back Breasts Butt Cheeks Ears Face Fingers Inner Thighs Mouth Neck Nipples Penis Perineum Scalp Skin Testicles Toes Vulva Lap Dance Naked Through Clothes Licking Abdomen Anus Back Breasts

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Butt Cheeks Ears Face Fingers Inner Thighs Mouth Neck Nipples Penis Perineum Scalp Skin Testicles Toes Vulva Massaging With Feet/Toes Abdomen Anus Back Breasts Butt Cheeks Ears Face Fingers Inner Thighs Mouth Neck Nipples Penis Perineum Scalp Skin Testicles Toes Vulva Massaging With Hands/Fingers Abdomen Anus Back Breasts Butt Cheeks Ears Face Fingers


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G-Spot Inner Thighs Mouth Neck Nipples Penis Perineum Prostate (P-Spot) Scalp Skin Testicles Toes Vagina Vulva Using Massage Oils Using Lotion Using Lube Pinching Abdomen Back Breasts Butt Cheeks Ears Face Fingers Inner Thighs Mouth Neck Nipples Penis Skin Testicles Toes Vulva Scratching Abdomen Back Breasts Butt Cheeks Ears Face Fingers Inner Thighs Mouth


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Neck Nipples Penis Skin Testicles Toes Vulva Side By Side Masturbation Simultaneous Genital Massage Simultaneous Oral Play (69, Dudes!) Slapping Abdomen Back Breasts Butt Cheeks Ears Face Fingers Inner Thighs Mouth Neck Nipples Penis Skin Testicles Toes Vulva Smelling Anus Armpits Breath Farts Neck Perineum Testicles Vulva Spitting In a Mouth On a Face On a Penis On a Vulva On an Anus On Breasts On Skin


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On Testicles Submission Taking Orders Playing a “Submissive” Character Letting Someone Else Take Charge Sucking A Clitoris A Penis A Vulva An Anus Ears Lips Fingers Necks Nipples Skin Testicles Toes Tongue Talking Dirty Temperature Play In a Vagina In a Rectum In an Anus On A Penis On a Vulva On an Anus On Skin Tickling Abdomen Armpits Back Breasts Butt Cheeks Ears Face Fingers Inner Thighs Mouth Neck Penis Scalp Skin Testicles


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Toes Vulva Tugging Clitoris Ear Lobes Hair Labia Nipples Penis Testicles Vaginally Valprehending A Penis A Tongue Fingers Toes Watching A Partner Finger Themselves Have Sex With Someone Else Masturbate Perform a Strip-Tease Pose Touch/Massage Themselves Undress


Toys Toys Toys – Purveyor of Pleasure This WWWChart is to help you think about what kinds of sex toys you’d like to use on a partner! When you’re filling out this chart, think about whether the sex toy listed is something you want to use on a partner, something you will use on a partner, or something you just won’t use. This WWWChart is designed to be used with the Toys – Beneficiary of Bliss WWWChart. Click here to get it! For directions on how to use a WWWChart, Click Here! Toy 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20. 21. 22. 23. 24. 25. 26. 27. 28. 29. 30. 31. 32. 33.

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Vibrators Power Source Battery Operated Chorded/Electric Rechargeable Battery Material Elastomer Hard Plastic Latex Silicone Design External Only Internal (Can be used externally) Simultaneous Internal/External G-Spot Curve P-Spot Curve Clitoral Vibration Focused Full Vulva Vibration Focused Penis Focused Anus Focused Looks Like A Penis Doesn’t Look Like A Penis Discreet (I.e. Lipstick Vibes, Ducky Vibes) Waterproof Splash Proof Wearable Hands-Free Ergonomic Vibration Constant Pulsating Programmed Patterns Music Controlled © 2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

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Butt Toys Material Glass Hard Plastic Silicone Stainless Steel Wood Design Beads Dildo Harnessable P.C. (Kegel) Exerciser Plug P-Spot Curve Self-Manipulating Vibrating Dildos Material Acrylic Glass Silicone Stainless Steel Wood Design Looks Like A Penis Doesn’t Look Like A Penis No Testicles With Testicles Suction Cup Base Flat Base (Harnessable, Anal Safe) G-Spot Curve P-Spot Curve Vibrating Double Harness-Less Strap-On P.C. (Kegel) Exerciser Edibles Body Dust (Flavored Corn-Starch) Body Pens Chocolate Stencils Edible Bra Edible Underwear Flavored Lube Edible Massage Oil Paint-On Chocolate © 2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

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